Now I'm not a black man that would never desperate enough to date a white girl but some of y'all be pissing me off. My friend invited me to this nasty azz group and I just had to look at the members. I couldn't help but notice that a majority of the white girls in this group are either fat, old and/ or just plain unattractive, common among white girls who ';love black men.';
I've been told numerous times that I am very good looking ';for a black guy.'; And they act as if that's supposed to mean something more because it's coming from them the ';epitome of beauty'; LOL. I've had fat, ugly white women come up and flirt as if they KNOW I will be interested and then they actually get surprised when I tell them to waddle their fat cellulite@$$#$ out of my face. Doesn't it bother any of y'all that you are somebody's last resort? They think they are too good for you. Unless of course you have money...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wbFYsJ_C0jM%26amp;feature=related
Notice the white woman at :35 says that a man of color needs to provide ';extra security'; AKA have more $$$$ in order to be worthy of her.
Here is another article.
http://www.nypress.com/18/49/news%26amp;columns/SusanCrainBakos.cfm
Here is another white woman who ';started to love black men'; at 40.
Here is what she looks like. (She is the fat @$$ sundamaged, trool on the left)
http://www.metacafe.com/watch/2169727/susan_crain_bakos_goes_to_babeland/
Isn't it funny that in their younger days, when they think they are the $h!t, white women think they are too good for a black man (LMAO) but when they start looking nasty (for white women that's like 28 or so.) or get fat, they all of a sudden ';love'; black men. One of these nasty b!$%#es approached me at work and I had to tell her to get her sundamaged, tuna colored *** out of my face and go to pilates or something.
Just goes to show how superficial, self righteous and VERY racist white women really are. Seriously, not every black man is desperate enough to date you. Black men, don't we deserve better?
Doesn't this bother any of you?
Here is a youtube video talking about it!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iqJbb2aBaxw
And my friends wonder why I take a white woman flirting with me as an insult.Why can't black many black men see that white women use them?
What? I'm confused...I mean if you have a problem with white women then date whatever women you want to. This seems pretty ridiculous and small-minded to me.Why can't black many black men see that white women use them?
If they're dating, probably not.
i dont think they care. they just want to date them.
I don't know.
idk not every girl does!
Does what bother me?
Since we all know that you are not black. You are a WHITE boy who can only get fat white chicks if that who spends his days and nights searching for Youtube videos and yahoo answers that involve black people. Then you post racial comments that for some strange reason get you aroused when you are tired of watching porn. Come on now this is getting pretty old and lame.
If you don't like the thought of dating a white woman, that's your choice, but that's where your choices end. Beyond that, what follows is a bigoted rant that is mired more in mean-spiritedness than in any actual facts. Live in ways that make you feel happy and fulfilled, and allow others to do the same in peace.
youre reading too much into it. Youre just jealous Dennis Rodman bagged Carmen Elektra.
Now go home and get laid by your black blow up doll
Well, ask yourself this.
Does it not work the other way round too?
WoW racist much!!!! and not all white women are like that i will admit there are alot like that but theres also black women like that to!! Just cause you have seen some white grls like that doesn't mean you have to go judging everyone else! that is being very Stereotypical!!
I think you're probably being a bit stereotypical...
I've got no problems with skin colour whatsoever and if I had a crush on a black guy then hell yeah I'd have a crush on a black guy- it makes no difference to skin colour. Maybe its bothering you because YOU have an objection to mix racial dating. Therefore the women should be insulted that their compliments are thrown back in their faces because you're the racist one.
Friday, August 20, 2010
How do you deal with other women flirting with your boyfriend?
My boyfriend of a year is really attractive; he was a model before he moved from California. He's also completely loyal to me, so I'm not worried that he'll cheat on me, but this issue has been bothering me.
Wherever we go, women stare at him and flirt with him. He's nice to everyone, not just these women. He always goes out of his way to smile at people and ask them how their days are going. I guess this could be misconstrued as flirting in the case of these women. I don't mind people looking at him--believe me, I understand how gorgeous he is! But it bothers me when because he smiled at them, they get really smug with me. At lunch today (our anniversary, btw) he smiled at a waitress(not even our server!), and she kept passing by to check him out. On her return trip, she'd smirk at me, and it made me really uncomfortable. Right before we left, she darted over the table to see if she could refill his water glass, asking ';Was this iced tea?'; and shoving her chest forward. He said, ';No, my girlfriend was drinking iced tea,'; and she got the hint.
I'm tired of dealing with this; I just want to be able to go out and have fun with my boyfriend without being interrupted by other women. At times, it definitely seems like these people are judging me for being with him, and that tends to put me in a bad mood. I'd love some ideas for dealing with girls in situations like this without being outright rude or making a huge deal out of it--maybe subtle things to make them shut up?
So, any advice for ways to deal with drooling women? I'm getting pretty sick of it. Help is very much appreciated.How do you deal with other women flirting with your boyfriend?
You should definately talk to your boyfriend about how you feel if you haven't already. he might lay off the smiling, i think that gives girls the impression that he's in to them.
if you hold his hand and get a little closer to him in public, i dont think he'd get as much attention from other girls, because it would be more clear that hes taken(: hope this helps!celebrity myspace payday advance
Wherever we go, women stare at him and flirt with him. He's nice to everyone, not just these women. He always goes out of his way to smile at people and ask them how their days are going. I guess this could be misconstrued as flirting in the case of these women. I don't mind people looking at him--believe me, I understand how gorgeous he is! But it bothers me when because he smiled at them, they get really smug with me. At lunch today (our anniversary, btw) he smiled at a waitress(not even our server!), and she kept passing by to check him out. On her return trip, she'd smirk at me, and it made me really uncomfortable. Right before we left, she darted over the table to see if she could refill his water glass, asking ';Was this iced tea?'; and shoving her chest forward. He said, ';No, my girlfriend was drinking iced tea,'; and she got the hint.
I'm tired of dealing with this; I just want to be able to go out and have fun with my boyfriend without being interrupted by other women. At times, it definitely seems like these people are judging me for being with him, and that tends to put me in a bad mood. I'd love some ideas for dealing with girls in situations like this without being outright rude or making a huge deal out of it--maybe subtle things to make them shut up?
So, any advice for ways to deal with drooling women? I'm getting pretty sick of it. Help is very much appreciated.How do you deal with other women flirting with your boyfriend?
You should definately talk to your boyfriend about how you feel if you haven't already. he might lay off the smiling, i think that gives girls the impression that he's in to them.
if you hold his hand and get a little closer to him in public, i dont think he'd get as much attention from other girls, because it would be more clear that hes taken(: hope this helps!
Does he want to cheat??? Men's opinions - or women who know men!!?
A married man and woman flirt for months at work – there’s staring (lots of it!), a lot of smiling, touching (from him), compliments, he always makes time for her and gives her a lot more attention than everyone else…
The woman gets pregnant and so does the guy’s wife. The guy always starts conversations with the woman, even when she’s just walking by his office – lately, he has complained about his wife’s behavior, how she yells at him, and praised the woman for how “calm” and “even-keeled” she always is, and how he always thinks about how his wife is not like the woman…
One day, the whole department is having lunch together, and one of the older men stops the conversation and says to the married guy: “(Guy’s name), you missed a comment that (woman’s name) just made… She said that, when it comes to pregnancy, men have it just as hard as women!”. She keeps talking about how she WANTS to yell at her husband, but never does, b/c he’s so good to her and doesn’t deserve it – and that she would never do that even though she’s pregnant, etc.
The guy says to her “Oh! I want to give you a hug!!” and goes on to say that he’ll take her quote and have it as a disclaimer at the end of his e-mail signature, and how he’d love it if she could “tell his wife how to behave like that”, etc. They keep gushing over how perfect a wife the woman is.
Then, the older guy says: “(Woman’s name) is setting the standard for how pregnant women should behave…”. The married guy looks straight at her, smiles and says “(Woman’s Name) sets ALL the standards…”. Ignoring everyone else around them, he continues to stare deeply into her eyes after he’s finished saying it - and she stares back.
What do his comments mean? Does he have a crush?Does he want to cheat??? Men's opinions - or women who know men!!?
There is obviously some kind of affection between the man and the woman. It doesn't mean through that the guy wants to cheat or that he even has a crush on her. It may just be a close friendship in his mind and that it's ok to say those things to her.
If you really wanted to know if it was more than that, you would have to ask if he were single, would he go out with her or something to that affect. There is a big difference between innocent flirting and wanting to cheat on your spouse.
The woman gets pregnant and so does the guy’s wife. The guy always starts conversations with the woman, even when she’s just walking by his office – lately, he has complained about his wife’s behavior, how she yells at him, and praised the woman for how “calm” and “even-keeled” she always is, and how he always thinks about how his wife is not like the woman…
One day, the whole department is having lunch together, and one of the older men stops the conversation and says to the married guy: “(Guy’s name), you missed a comment that (woman’s name) just made… She said that, when it comes to pregnancy, men have it just as hard as women!”. She keeps talking about how she WANTS to yell at her husband, but never does, b/c he’s so good to her and doesn’t deserve it – and that she would never do that even though she’s pregnant, etc.
The guy says to her “Oh! I want to give you a hug!!” and goes on to say that he’ll take her quote and have it as a disclaimer at the end of his e-mail signature, and how he’d love it if she could “tell his wife how to behave like that”, etc. They keep gushing over how perfect a wife the woman is.
Then, the older guy says: “(Woman’s name) is setting the standard for how pregnant women should behave…”. The married guy looks straight at her, smiles and says “(Woman’s Name) sets ALL the standards…”. Ignoring everyone else around them, he continues to stare deeply into her eyes after he’s finished saying it - and she stares back.
What do his comments mean? Does he have a crush?Does he want to cheat??? Men's opinions - or women who know men!!?
There is obviously some kind of affection between the man and the woman. It doesn't mean through that the guy wants to cheat or that he even has a crush on her. It may just be a close friendship in his mind and that it's ok to say those things to her.
If you really wanted to know if it was more than that, you would have to ask if he were single, would he go out with her or something to that affect. There is a big difference between innocent flirting and wanting to cheat on your spouse.
Old Question, Same Answer. Can men and women be friends without sex?
Me and my fiance were talking this morning and she asked me if I had heard from my female friends from my old job. I was let go from it back in Dec but stayed in touch with a few people I closely worked with. My girl thinks that because most of the guys she's met in her life always wanted to sleep with her then every guy wants to sleep with every girl he's met. My girl is high yella with long straight hair and she weighs about 120 lbs.
She thinks that every guy who meets a girl wants to sleep with her right off the bat wheither he has a girlfriend or not. She made mention to talk about some guy on her job who's younger than her who likes older women and apparently who's made a few comments to her about wanting to get with her. So, with that she assumes I'm doing that with my female co-workers, or ex-coworkers. Yes, we still touch bases with each other. An email here or there to say, ';hey, how have you been.'; Or, ';how are the kids doing?'; She even asked if we talked about sex. I didn't lie to her, yes, sometimes our conversations did mention sex but that still didn't mean I wanted to get with them or them with me. If my girl had her way I'd only invite guys to our wedding and she would only invite women.
I told her that not only do men flirt and she said, ';yes, women flirt back.'; Meaning, men flirt first.
What do you guys think? Has my girl been jaded with everyone thinking that because most guys want to sleep with her every guy wants to sleep with every girl he meets or befriends. And is there anything wrong with friends exchanging email addresses or phone numbers even though they are dating someone. My girl thinks that's a no no and could lead to something more. Hell, just giving a stranger a friendly nod on the street could lead to something but it doesn't always happen.
What goes through a woman or man's mind to think that everytime their mate talks to or talks about some one of the opposite sex they think they want to sleep with them?Old Question, Same Answer. Can men and women be friends without sex?
90-% of the time noOld Question, Same Answer. Can men and women be friends without sex?
Out of respect for your fiance, I think you should be more careful and considerate of her level of comfortability with which other women you are talking to. Women can be very protective,territorial and jelous by nature and if you don't NEED to talk to these other women then you probably shouldn't
sounds like she doesn't trust or respect you...
{and if that is the case, she'll constantly be suspicious of you and your actions, which will KILL the relationship}
without trust and respect, you have nothing but a sham....
tell her that...
maybe she is projecting some guilt onto you. she might be fantasizing about her male co-worker!
your lady friend is very insecure.
yes, most of the men want to go to bed with all the women they meet..
but not all of them..
my sons bestfriend is a female. they act like brother and sister. they argue lol she is engaged and lives with her boyfriend . my son crashes over there sometimes on the couch. my son is the only guy she can hang with. she is even trying to set my son up with a girlfriend of hers.
She thinks that every guy who meets a girl wants to sleep with her right off the bat wheither he has a girlfriend or not. She made mention to talk about some guy on her job who's younger than her who likes older women and apparently who's made a few comments to her about wanting to get with her. So, with that she assumes I'm doing that with my female co-workers, or ex-coworkers. Yes, we still touch bases with each other. An email here or there to say, ';hey, how have you been.'; Or, ';how are the kids doing?'; She even asked if we talked about sex. I didn't lie to her, yes, sometimes our conversations did mention sex but that still didn't mean I wanted to get with them or them with me. If my girl had her way I'd only invite guys to our wedding and she would only invite women.
I told her that not only do men flirt and she said, ';yes, women flirt back.'; Meaning, men flirt first.
What do you guys think? Has my girl been jaded with everyone thinking that because most guys want to sleep with her every guy wants to sleep with every girl he meets or befriends. And is there anything wrong with friends exchanging email addresses or phone numbers even though they are dating someone. My girl thinks that's a no no and could lead to something more. Hell, just giving a stranger a friendly nod on the street could lead to something but it doesn't always happen.
What goes through a woman or man's mind to think that everytime their mate talks to or talks about some one of the opposite sex they think they want to sleep with them?Old Question, Same Answer. Can men and women be friends without sex?
90-% of the time noOld Question, Same Answer. Can men and women be friends without sex?
Out of respect for your fiance, I think you should be more careful and considerate of her level of comfortability with which other women you are talking to. Women can be very protective,territorial and jelous by nature and if you don't NEED to talk to these other women then you probably shouldn't
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sounds like she doesn't trust or respect you...
{and if that is the case, she'll constantly be suspicious of you and your actions, which will KILL the relationship}
without trust and respect, you have nothing but a sham....
tell her that...
maybe she is projecting some guilt onto you. she might be fantasizing about her male co-worker!
your lady friend is very insecure.
yes, most of the men want to go to bed with all the women they meet..
but not all of them..
my sons bestfriend is a female. they act like brother and sister. they argue lol she is engaged and lives with her boyfriend . my son crashes over there sometimes on the couch. my son is the only guy she can hang with. she is even trying to set my son up with a girlfriend of hers.
Was this women trying to get my attention by flirting?
Ladies: Was this woman flirting with me or not?
Ladies: Was this woman flirting with me or not?
Ladies: Was this woman flirting with me or not?
At work, there was a rep from out of town that I would see once in a while and I think she caught on to me being friendly with her (I find her very attractive, but try to remain professional and not schmoozey)
and she always gives me a big smile ';how're you doing';, she'll grin or grin back after I just say it to her regularly and then smiled and said hi and just looked very happy, jolly. I think it's her personality.
One day I came into her office and she was on the comp and she said ';hey, you...'; and I said hi and I asked her about her state. Then she told me about it, and we started talking about sports there and if it was close to any good beaches...
Then she told me, that there was one place, and then (she was wearing a skirt), she mentioned that when she went the water usually touched a spot, and she put her hand briefly on the side of her knee cap where her skirt ended.....
then
A question:
Did she know I was tiptoing about trying to visualize her in beachwear?
Girls know guys make convo to pry about things sometimes right?
And was that flirting?Was this women trying to get my attention by flirting?
No. She wasn't flirting. I hate to burst your bubble. She was just being friendly with her coworker. See, guys 'read into' every situation with a woman. Men think gals are thinking the same as they are, but women don't think about sex 90 minutes out of every hour like men do :-)Was this women trying to get my attention by flirting?
yeah, id think she was. and thankyou, women do know everything lol
and even if she wasnt you should ask her to go on a date wiht you somtime. you sais you only see her from time to time so if she says no it wont even be that awkward.
im a guy but everyone knows that that is defenitly flirting and yes she did know u were picturing her cuz for sum wierd reason girls know everything!!!! lol
Ladies: Was this woman flirting with me or not?
Ladies: Was this woman flirting with me or not?
At work, there was a rep from out of town that I would see once in a while and I think she caught on to me being friendly with her (I find her very attractive, but try to remain professional and not schmoozey)
and she always gives me a big smile ';how're you doing';, she'll grin or grin back after I just say it to her regularly and then smiled and said hi and just looked very happy, jolly. I think it's her personality.
One day I came into her office and she was on the comp and she said ';hey, you...'; and I said hi and I asked her about her state. Then she told me about it, and we started talking about sports there and if it was close to any good beaches...
Then she told me, that there was one place, and then (she was wearing a skirt), she mentioned that when she went the water usually touched a spot, and she put her hand briefly on the side of her knee cap where her skirt ended.....
then
A question:
Did she know I was tiptoing about trying to visualize her in beachwear?
Girls know guys make convo to pry about things sometimes right?
And was that flirting?Was this women trying to get my attention by flirting?
No. She wasn't flirting. I hate to burst your bubble. She was just being friendly with her coworker. See, guys 'read into' every situation with a woman. Men think gals are thinking the same as they are, but women don't think about sex 90 minutes out of every hour like men do :-)Was this women trying to get my attention by flirting?
yeah, id think she was. and thankyou, women do know everything lol
and even if she wasnt you should ask her to go on a date wiht you somtime. you sais you only see her from time to time so if she says no it wont even be that awkward.
im a guy but everyone knows that that is defenitly flirting and yes she did know u were picturing her cuz for sum wierd reason girls know everything!!!! lol
What happened to respectful women?
i remember when u could ask a woman out, the 2 of u would go on a date, ect. ect.
but it feels like my generation is going down the drain lately, and i know there is respectful women out there, but why am i not finding them?
lately all i am seeing is girls less interested in relationships, and more interested in one night stands or cheating on the person theyre already with, why is that? what happened to finding a good relationship and dedicating urself to it?
but the biggest problem i have now... im 21 (yes its known as that party age) but how come most of the women i know my age... think having fun is going out and getting drunk or using drugs?
im sick of the ways that alot of women flirt around, get drunk alot, use drugs, and degrade themselves by dressing like ';hoochie momma's';
and i know this ISNT the problem with EVERY woman, but its VERY common problem among women of my age... what really happened to women being more respectful?
the way i was raised... a woman was supposed to act ';lady like';, not go around cursing, they were supposed to go around showing there body off to every guy they see
it just seems that alot of women my age have lost respect for themselves %26amp; who they really are
...and dont let me get started on women my age having kids... i cant tell u the number of women i met that simply say ';i want a baby right now'; without having a relationship or any reason to be thinking that yet
is there any possible way to find a good %26amp; respectful women? and what should i be looking for?What happened to respectful women?
It is possible to find a good %26amp; respectful woman. I would recommend joining a church that is located in a good area of your town. Most women that go to church services respect God and follow the Bible, and are probably not like that.What happened to respectful women?
and a lot of girls dream about their guy being nice and caring but all they find is wanna-be jerks all around.
i am a girl and my life's wish is to find a guy that at least doesn't slap ';back pockets'; all the time.
look in a library, a church, a club, an orginazation, or a charity....
you'll find ';her'; someday.. :)
Its because a lot of parents are no longer teaching values and morals. There are a lot of good women out there....Maybe stop looking for them in the party environment...Or just wait, your time will come...If your a good guy, you'll get your good girl...Dont worry just live your life and do the things that make you happy right now...
dude i think i just fell inlove with you haha... im a girl yes cant you tell but what your explaining is the exact kind of guys i meet. i just want a relationship, where i know i wont get cheated on, broken and someone who likes to talk and hang out...
man i am 15 and shy *** hell to talk to girls but i observe a lot of thing girls my generation only like you for your money if you live in new york you will find nothing but them kind of slut don't get me wrong i lov3 ev3ry kinda girl but aleast 2 out of 5 are them type of hoes
Look for older girls who are past the party stage, or girls your age who aren't partiers. Sorry if you don't like any girls like that, but it's all you can do bro.
i am 28 years old gentleman and i know what you mean it is hard if not impossible to find good women it's like finding a needle in a hay stack
they were raised wrong so they act like that further out in rural areas have better women or you could look in at a better college like a UC because there they might be serious.
i ask myself the same thing. its the whole men and women are equal crap. well guess what we are not!!! men cant get pregnant!
they still exist. they are generally older and wiser
i kno wat u mean. im 16 and i understand. the real problem is that ';society'; ';trend'; ';fashion'; and the media has put them like this
wat hath women become?
It's all about environment. You probably live in a really small town, don't you? It was like that with me.
just what u said. u should be looking for a good respectable woman. and there out there they are just with all the wrong men at the present time. dnt give up there is still some of us left in the world. try looking in church or at college. but i totally agree with u. women or so stupid when it come to there life and what they want to become. i love the fact that i was raised right. 23 about to graduate in may from broadcasting school no kids (whoo)! and work full time. (o god im so tired lol). trust me there is more of us out there u just have to be willing to be patient and look. keep ya head up
wow i feel the same way to about finding a good guy because i was raised the old fashioned way and in the church way. but sorry to say you will look long and hard and when you find that good girl
you will not let her go. Okay realistically she will have things about her that you dont like but if she tries and change just a little then she is worth it
You clearly have a mature mind so you will need to look for girls or better yet look for LADIES that are smart, maybe church girls or artists or someone who values beauty and classy things im not really sure because ive never dated a girl.
at times people who are older are usually more calm because their age says they have to be or life its self will calm down a wild spirit. test a persons mind, financial status, spiritual beliefs, what are their hobbies, and if any of these answers result in you wanting to get tested for STD's and you havent slept with them yet then they are not for you
I'm a girl, but I couldn't agree more (although too many guys DO cheat on their girlfriends) But what your saying is true, it's unattractive for girls or anyone to do that, but at the same time at the age of 21 people just like to party and drink/drugs because they fell like that's the only way to have fun (not true) and that you better do it now before you get to old. But I defineltly feel the same about guys because I haveso many friends and have heard so many stories of guys cheating on their wives/girlfriends and leave them heart broken. Anyways IT IS possible to find a good women. The girls that are respectful are the ones that are calm, sweet, and mostly MATURE with good manners that will respect you and their own bodies. You sound like a sweet guy that I would defineltly go for. (you don't know how many times a guy likes me, but obviously wants me only for sex which I would never do untill I know I love them) All in all you need to look for some one conservative (maybe a conservative looking girl in on of your classes, if you go to school) Hope I helped and best wishes!
Hey there, you seem like a nice guy and I know what you mean. I'm not much older than you.. just a few years, but I even notice this with the younger girls in my family. I think a lot of it has to do with self esteem issues, that they feel they need to do or act or dress a certain way to please a guy. Little do they know that it's not really what a good guy wants (well, that's just my opinion anyway). Plus, look at the celebrity role models these people had... Its cool to go out and have a good time with friends, but a lot of times it goes way past that. I don't really think there is anything YOU can really do, but I am positive that there are 'your type' of chicks out there. If your in school, try meeting someone at school...
well i'm a 21 year old girl and i don't act like that at all. Not to be harsh but if you're only looking at the super attractive girls that's all you are going to get. There are a lot of partiers at 21, but i don't think you are looking in the right places. Instead of looking for girls at parties, talk to the girls in the library on a friday night, i'm sure you'd be surprised on the nice girls you'd meet :)
unfortunately this problem of the way girls act and dress is only going to get alot worse i wish it wouldt but it will. the good respectful women is out there i guess it just comes down to being at the right place at the right time and if its meant to be then it will happen just remember that not all girls are like these foul mouthed lay abouts thats me trying to describe them nicely sorry.
heyyy I'm not like that! haha no but I get what you mean. I know why. (being a girl myself, even though I'm not like that). Well, girls think that partying, wearing tight clothes, and all round flirting is sexy and brings a guys attention no matter what. Its disgusting, but they think its cute and will attract a testorone filled boy in no time (which 90% of the time, it does). Thens the other 10%, like you, are left thinking, ';how was this girl even raised?';. I was actually surprised that you think that way. because its hard to find guys that aren't fully engrossed in a woman's breast or tight jeans.
:/ It's messed up isn't it?
I thought I was the only person who thought that way...
Maybe it's due to the changing times, isn't it? It's obvious that women are not the same now, as they were 20 years back in time...
Don't worry dude, one day you'll a women who fits all your needs, that day will come, and you'll remember somehow what I said.
Good Luck!
I think I am a respectable woman. I'm 20, I dont go out partying ever weekend, I dont drink or smoke, I dont do any kind of drugs, I am always focused on everything I do, I dress conservatively and stylish at the same time, I dont just go head over heels for any guys. It takes a lot for me to accept people in my life. They almost have to have a passport to be a part of my life. I only engage in friendships and relationships with people that are respectable and smart..
You are absolutely right about that.
It is very hard to find a ';respectful'; girl at that age.
Just remember, there is a person for everyone.
If a smart, sweet, ladylike, caring,funny, adventurous girl is what you are looking for, you will find her some day, don't worry. It may seem impossible but you will eventually find someone that is not like that. Girls like that are not hard to find if you don't just look, but you are actually seeing. I wish you luck:)
What happened to all the respectful men?
Dont pin it all on women; all of the drunken idiots i have seen where i live have all been males, showing off to their pathetic mates and treating girls like crap. Why the hell would i want someone like that coming over and slobbering on me?
Most people have no respect for themselves, male and female.
but it feels like my generation is going down the drain lately, and i know there is respectful women out there, but why am i not finding them?
lately all i am seeing is girls less interested in relationships, and more interested in one night stands or cheating on the person theyre already with, why is that? what happened to finding a good relationship and dedicating urself to it?
but the biggest problem i have now... im 21 (yes its known as that party age) but how come most of the women i know my age... think having fun is going out and getting drunk or using drugs?
im sick of the ways that alot of women flirt around, get drunk alot, use drugs, and degrade themselves by dressing like ';hoochie momma's';
and i know this ISNT the problem with EVERY woman, but its VERY common problem among women of my age... what really happened to women being more respectful?
the way i was raised... a woman was supposed to act ';lady like';, not go around cursing, they were supposed to go around showing there body off to every guy they see
it just seems that alot of women my age have lost respect for themselves %26amp; who they really are
...and dont let me get started on women my age having kids... i cant tell u the number of women i met that simply say ';i want a baby right now'; without having a relationship or any reason to be thinking that yet
is there any possible way to find a good %26amp; respectful women? and what should i be looking for?What happened to respectful women?
It is possible to find a good %26amp; respectful woman. I would recommend joining a church that is located in a good area of your town. Most women that go to church services respect God and follow the Bible, and are probably not like that.What happened to respectful women?
and a lot of girls dream about their guy being nice and caring but all they find is wanna-be jerks all around.
i am a girl and my life's wish is to find a guy that at least doesn't slap ';back pockets'; all the time.
look in a library, a church, a club, an orginazation, or a charity....
you'll find ';her'; someday.. :)
Its because a lot of parents are no longer teaching values and morals. There are a lot of good women out there....Maybe stop looking for them in the party environment...Or just wait, your time will come...If your a good guy, you'll get your good girl...Dont worry just live your life and do the things that make you happy right now...
dude i think i just fell inlove with you haha... im a girl yes cant you tell but what your explaining is the exact kind of guys i meet. i just want a relationship, where i know i wont get cheated on, broken and someone who likes to talk and hang out...
man i am 15 and shy *** hell to talk to girls but i observe a lot of thing girls my generation only like you for your money if you live in new york you will find nothing but them kind of slut don't get me wrong i lov3 ev3ry kinda girl but aleast 2 out of 5 are them type of hoes
Look for older girls who are past the party stage, or girls your age who aren't partiers. Sorry if you don't like any girls like that, but it's all you can do bro.
i am 28 years old gentleman and i know what you mean it is hard if not impossible to find good women it's like finding a needle in a hay stack
they were raised wrong so they act like that further out in rural areas have better women or you could look in at a better college like a UC because there they might be serious.
i ask myself the same thing. its the whole men and women are equal crap. well guess what we are not!!! men cant get pregnant!
they still exist. they are generally older and wiser
i kno wat u mean. im 16 and i understand. the real problem is that ';society'; ';trend'; ';fashion'; and the media has put them like this
wat hath women become?
It's all about environment. You probably live in a really small town, don't you? It was like that with me.
just what u said. u should be looking for a good respectable woman. and there out there they are just with all the wrong men at the present time. dnt give up there is still some of us left in the world. try looking in church or at college. but i totally agree with u. women or so stupid when it come to there life and what they want to become. i love the fact that i was raised right. 23 about to graduate in may from broadcasting school no kids (whoo)! and work full time. (o god im so tired lol). trust me there is more of us out there u just have to be willing to be patient and look. keep ya head up
wow i feel the same way to about finding a good guy because i was raised the old fashioned way and in the church way. but sorry to say you will look long and hard and when you find that good girl
you will not let her go. Okay realistically she will have things about her that you dont like but if she tries and change just a little then she is worth it
You clearly have a mature mind so you will need to look for girls or better yet look for LADIES that are smart, maybe church girls or artists or someone who values beauty and classy things im not really sure because ive never dated a girl.
at times people who are older are usually more calm because their age says they have to be or life its self will calm down a wild spirit. test a persons mind, financial status, spiritual beliefs, what are their hobbies, and if any of these answers result in you wanting to get tested for STD's and you havent slept with them yet then they are not for you
I'm a girl, but I couldn't agree more (although too many guys DO cheat on their girlfriends) But what your saying is true, it's unattractive for girls or anyone to do that, but at the same time at the age of 21 people just like to party and drink/drugs because they fell like that's the only way to have fun (not true) and that you better do it now before you get to old. But I defineltly feel the same about guys because I haveso many friends and have heard so many stories of guys cheating on their wives/girlfriends and leave them heart broken. Anyways IT IS possible to find a good women. The girls that are respectful are the ones that are calm, sweet, and mostly MATURE with good manners that will respect you and their own bodies. You sound like a sweet guy that I would defineltly go for. (you don't know how many times a guy likes me, but obviously wants me only for sex which I would never do untill I know I love them) All in all you need to look for some one conservative (maybe a conservative looking girl in on of your classes, if you go to school) Hope I helped and best wishes!
Hey there, you seem like a nice guy and I know what you mean. I'm not much older than you.. just a few years, but I even notice this with the younger girls in my family. I think a lot of it has to do with self esteem issues, that they feel they need to do or act or dress a certain way to please a guy. Little do they know that it's not really what a good guy wants (well, that's just my opinion anyway). Plus, look at the celebrity role models these people had... Its cool to go out and have a good time with friends, but a lot of times it goes way past that. I don't really think there is anything YOU can really do, but I am positive that there are 'your type' of chicks out there. If your in school, try meeting someone at school...
well i'm a 21 year old girl and i don't act like that at all. Not to be harsh but if you're only looking at the super attractive girls that's all you are going to get. There are a lot of partiers at 21, but i don't think you are looking in the right places. Instead of looking for girls at parties, talk to the girls in the library on a friday night, i'm sure you'd be surprised on the nice girls you'd meet :)
unfortunately this problem of the way girls act and dress is only going to get alot worse i wish it wouldt but it will. the good respectful women is out there i guess it just comes down to being at the right place at the right time and if its meant to be then it will happen just remember that not all girls are like these foul mouthed lay abouts thats me trying to describe them nicely sorry.
heyyy I'm not like that! haha no but I get what you mean. I know why. (being a girl myself, even though I'm not like that). Well, girls think that partying, wearing tight clothes, and all round flirting is sexy and brings a guys attention no matter what. Its disgusting, but they think its cute and will attract a testorone filled boy in no time (which 90% of the time, it does). Thens the other 10%, like you, are left thinking, ';how was this girl even raised?';. I was actually surprised that you think that way. because its hard to find guys that aren't fully engrossed in a woman's breast or tight jeans.
:/ It's messed up isn't it?
I thought I was the only person who thought that way...
Maybe it's due to the changing times, isn't it? It's obvious that women are not the same now, as they were 20 years back in time...
Don't worry dude, one day you'll a women who fits all your needs, that day will come, and you'll remember somehow what I said.
Good Luck!
I think I am a respectable woman. I'm 20, I dont go out partying ever weekend, I dont drink or smoke, I dont do any kind of drugs, I am always focused on everything I do, I dress conservatively and stylish at the same time, I dont just go head over heels for any guys. It takes a lot for me to accept people in my life. They almost have to have a passport to be a part of my life. I only engage in friendships and relationships with people that are respectable and smart..
You are absolutely right about that.
It is very hard to find a ';respectful'; girl at that age.
Just remember, there is a person for everyone.
If a smart, sweet, ladylike, caring,funny, adventurous girl is what you are looking for, you will find her some day, don't worry. It may seem impossible but you will eventually find someone that is not like that. Girls like that are not hard to find if you don't just look, but you are actually seeing. I wish you luck:)
What happened to all the respectful men?
Dont pin it all on women; all of the drunken idiots i have seen where i live have all been males, showing off to their pathetic mates and treating girls like crap. Why the hell would i want someone like that coming over and slobbering on me?
Most people have no respect for themselves, male and female.
How do I know if a women is into me, romantically or sexually interested in me?
I am a 43 year old man who is just now getting into flirting with women. I have been seriously intimidated by flirting with women I like all my life, and was never able to get past this Phobia of asking a woman out. At the age of 43, I am going threw what usually a teenager would. I have no clue as to how to be succesfull in women wanting to go out with me, or be my mate, let alone knowing if she is into me, or just being regular nice and friendly. I need your help here because I am sick of being alone. I want to be successful with women, and have women flirt with me and show me they are into me, and have success in having a woman like me enough to go out with me. Men---I need your input on this, Ladies, please talk to me here and help me out.
Thanks.
CharlesHow do I know if a women is into me, romantically or sexually interested in me?
If you read books, I recommend ';The Game'; by Neil Strauss.
It'll tell you everything you need to know about women/relationships.
It's got some pretty dangerous material in there though. But it's supposed to help out people that have trouble with females. I have the same problem with women, and it changed how I view everything completely. It helped me a lot. Really, I would give you more advice, but I don't think I could tell you everything that that book could teach you. This is from personal experience with the same problem. It's all factual events too.
Anyway, I'll come back and post later if there isn't any better advice for you.
Thanks.
CharlesHow do I know if a women is into me, romantically or sexually interested in me?
If you read books, I recommend ';The Game'; by Neil Strauss.
It'll tell you everything you need to know about women/relationships.
It's got some pretty dangerous material in there though. But it's supposed to help out people that have trouble with females. I have the same problem with women, and it changed how I view everything completely. It helped me a lot. Really, I would give you more advice, but I don't think I could tell you everything that that book could teach you. This is from personal experience with the same problem. It's all factual events too.
Anyway, I'll come back and post later if there isn't any better advice for you.
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