Friday, August 20, 2010

Do you know these interesting things about flirting?

Old or young, homosexual or heterosexual, black or white here's one somewhat bizarre form of social behaviour displayed by all of us, albeit in varying amounts and to varying degrees of success. Whether it be a coy glance or a toss of the head, people of all cultures (and even some animals) like to partake in the time-old ritual of flirting.





Why We Flirt


According to Dr Monica Whitty of the University of Western Sydney, there are a few different reasons why we flirt. Generally we flirt to stimulate sexual interest, but sex is not always the ultimate goal. Often people flirt to see if people find them attractive, but apparently we sometimes flirt just for the fun of it.





Evolutionary psychologists argue that we flirt in order to protect the procuration of the species: ie flirting leads to sex which leads to babies. However, this view doesn't explain why homosexual people or elderly people also like to flirt.





Dr Whitty says that flirting exists in all cultures, although the meaning may vary in one culture to another. The emphasis on the eyes stays the same, but issues such as personal distance may vary.





Why Some People Are More Naturally Flirtatious than Others


While successful flirting is largely subconscious behaviour, flirting can be learned and studies have shown that young girls learn flirtatious behaviour from older women. Flirting also relates to self-confidence and extroverts tend to be more flirtatious than introverts. The more relaxed and confident you are about your ability to attract, the more flirtatious you will be.





How To Flirt


Dr Whitty says that while a lot of women may not like to admit it, much flirting is firmly fixed in gender stereotyped sexual behaviour. Women tend to try and look friendly, submissive and approachable thereby reducing the male's fear of rejection. She identifies some common flirting signals as follows:





Kinetics


This relates to body movement and usually starts with eyes and lips. A flirtatious couple will hold eye contact across a crowded room. They may use an ';eyebrow flash' which means raising the eyebrows up and lowering them quickly.





A meeting of eye contact, a look away and a look back is another sure sign of interest. Women may look up from beneath their eyelashes, meaning ';I'm here and I'm waiting for you to approach me';.





There's also a physiological reason for the interest in eyes: our pupils tend to enlarge when we look at something we like and we usually rate people as more attractive when they have large pupils. In fact, some Italian women used to use a herb to make their pupils larger. Remember though that the lighting and other factors such as drugs will have an effect on pupil size!





Lip-licking, touching or pouting the lips is a sign of sexual interest. Likewise, tossing the head and exposing the neck, a traditionally vulnerable area, is a sign that we are non-threatening and willing to submit to another's advances. It puts the other person at ease. This is one of the behaviours that is also sometimes used by other animals.





Another kinetic signal shared by animals is preening. Birds, peacocks and even cats and dogs will lick themselves or fluff up their coats/feathers in a bid to attract a member of the opposite sex. Likewise, humans will play with their hair, or adjust their clothing as part of the flirting ritual.





Proxemics


The next stage in flirting relates to personal space. The closer you stand to someone, the more seductive your approach. In Western society, 4ft is roughly the level at which we feel comfortable with a stranger, so if they come closer to you, they will either be perceived as seductive, or aggressive. Common steps to get closer to someone will be to offer a light for a cigarette, or to push your glass closer to their's. Leaning forward is again a sign of interest (or a very noisy environment!).





Haptics (Touch)


At close contact, humans might take preening a step further by actually touching or grooming the other: brushing a hair off their lapel, for example. Men are more likely to use touch than women, therefore a woman approaching a man in this way will be seen as quite forward.





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Do you know these interesting things about flirting?
No I didn't ;) Interesting :) I just found out I was very forward when I first met my boyfriend,lolDo you know these interesting things about flirting?
See you're getting and giving knowledge ;) Yes you did. When I first met him I would touch his arm or back every time I came in contact with him. I didn't know it was considered so forward,lol. Thanks :)

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I have been flirting with a woman i really want to get with - but she keeps going hot and cold on me and?

...to be honest it is driving me crazy and making me want her more...





I want to know how i can reverse this? Bearing in mind if i start ignoring her too much and she is changing and going cold on me, then we will have no contact.





Anyone have any suggestions on how i can reel her in, so i can get closer?I have been flirting with a woman i really want to get with - but she keeps going hot and cold on me and?
Ditch the *****! I have no time for women who play ignorant emotional games, they are very screwed up and will screw you up as well. It sounds as if you are well on the way to this now. Get rid of her, yes, the loss will hurt but you will be much better off without her.

Hey ladies what is a definite sign of not just flirting with a guy but that you want him?

Yes I am well aware of how most women flirt. My question is what are the things you may do when your not just flirting with a guy but when you want him to ask you out or come back to your place later? Guys pay attention this info is key to our survival in the dating world!Hey ladies what is a definite sign of not just flirting with a guy but that you want him?
Women don't know what they want, you see how many answered this question... I think it is crazy that women say they want one thing but if it is in their face they choose something else. So until they hit 27 or so, they are confused.Hey ladies what is a definite sign of not just flirting with a guy but that you want him?
If you want to know what a woman wants, ask her. If she can't tell you, that's her problem. If you like her enough, stay and listen while she figures it out. Or if not, just move on. Don't insult us all based on your silly stereotypes.

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I've found that a girl that can't end a pointless conversation PROBABLY wants your nutz. If she keeps saying ';goodbye' with her mouth and ';hello'; with her eyes AND it takes about 6-7 ';goodbyes'; before you walk away then there's a good chance that she's interested.

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  • What would you do if you were in my shoes?

    i met this guy via internet and i though we have basically fallen head over heels have a lot in common and so forth.we have even spoken of meeting.


    up until he told me how some women flirt with him on the net.


    he claims its all innocent and flirting but i am starting to wonder if he is doing and saying the same things to them as he is me.


    i am hurt and shocked by what he said i dont know what to do.


    what would you do if you were in my shoes? thanksWhat would you do if you were in my shoes?
    Trust very important in a relationship, if not the most important thing. In my opinion, someone who truly loves you wouldn't flirt with any other people. Of course people are allowed to talk to others but there should be a clear line between the things you say to random people and to your partner. I would have a serious talk with him about how you feel about it and what his feelings towards you are.





    Hopefully it will work out between you two but remember if he's not being loyal to you now, he will never be.





    Be very careful about meeting people from the internet, be sure to know them very well and meet up in a public place. Also tell others where you're going to and who you're going to meet.What would you do if you were in my shoes?
    Well how is he supposed to commit to you when you've never meet? I mean your not technically dating right? So it kinda should of been expected. Internet is a bad way to meet people in my opinion. Truthfully, if you don't know what this guy is doing on the internet, then how you expect to know who he really is? So many people will pull a couple of white lies just to make themselves sound better than they are in person. I mean if you ever were to meet, if you feel even now that you can't trust him, then as always anyway, you should meet him in a public place. Plus, maybe some friends on the side, and DONT go into a house even with friends until you really get to meet this guy. He might not even be the person you thought he would be. So whatever you decide to do, be safe, and best of luck.
    I would not meet him in person. I would start doing something with my life other than being on the net at the time he is supposed to be there. Then say, OPS, I was at the dentist. I was shopping and got carried away with time. I was caught in traffic when returning from the post office. Things like that. Once you start pulling away from him, it will not be hard to dump him.
    dont bother meeting him i am sure he is doing and saying the same to other people. give up on people like him u can do further better! dont let him play bout with ur mind that is what i would do. but its up 2 u on what u want to do. i am me and you are different so u might want to do sumthing different. it is all up 2 u but, couldnt you do much better than this?
    If I was in your shoes I would dump em. Meeting people on the internet and then meeting them is very dangerous, even if you think he is safe. It is actually illegal. Don't do it. Just give him another chance, but don't meet him!
    i am not sure





    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AhfmL7RWKp916DHOcnAT2CHsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20080517145359AA2DkB3
    umm i actually dont get serious on net wit people....coz u never know what the person iz actually.


    if i were in ur shoes ...n i actually liked d guy i'll get straight to


    him.....mayb b a lill rude n blunt...but i would get things straight......


    gal people make 5 - 10 galfrnds on net..........how can u ever b sure ur not one of them??
    i wouldnt meet him innocent flirting leads to dating u don't want a guy who is going to u bc his ';innocent flirting'; didn't work out.
    I wouldn't even try falling in love wiht someone over the internet
    if he told you that he flirts then other girls then he's not serious with you. stop talkin to him.
    Unfortunately, guys who tend to have a relationship or chat on line, expect him to be talking to numerous girls. Sorry to say but, its really not smart to just trust a guy who you just met on the net, you know? If he says that women flirts on him on line, it means he talks to them that's why he flirts with him. He say nice things to them and they do the same thing. They could make you envision them as your dream guy or a nice guy even if they aren't. You maybe fallen head over heels for him, but are you sure he really is? Stop it now while you can. You might miss him in a week or two but it would save you for heart ache in the future. Just be careful, Oppss.. if you maybe stop talking to him on line and a week or two he became so persistent leaving msgs on line, just maybe, he really cares for you. But if you just stop talking to him and in a week or 2 he didn't make any effort to contact you, well, you would know why? He might be having some spare to share his sweet thoughts.

    Why do single women like to flirt with an obviously married man?

    whereever we'd go ....the store or a resturant, right in front of me, a checkout clerk blatently flirted w/ my husband! it is so rude and heartless. how should i handle this? what could i say to ward them off? thanks!Why do single women like to flirt with an obviously married man?
    Tell er ya husband don't date smelly people.Why do single women like to flirt with an obviously married man?
    I think one of the biggest reasons women do this is because they know its safe. What I mean by that is they know they can do it and not expect to be asked out or pursued. Its like the women who hang out with gay men, they do it because they know there not going to get hit on. If the flirting is bothering you than say something to the person when it happens. Look at it this way, its obvious your husband still has the looks right? So in a way flirting is a compliment. It might be heartless of women to do this, but if you trust your husband it shouldn't matter.
    At the restaurants, they are just trying to get a better tip. The rest are possibly interested....but you should just take it as a compliment. Take their flirting as them telling you that you have a really great guy. If you trust your husband, then you have nothing to worry about. I know it can be frustrating when your significant other is constantly being hit on, but it doesn't have to be. Instead of letting it upset you it should build your confidence. You have somebody that others would want....and he loves you.
    Take it as a compliment. They can flirt all they want, but he's your husband so you win!


    Don't be so insecure about it. Roll with the punches.











    -Is that gasoline I smell?
    100% all the time, they like to think there better than the wife and can offer more... by not caring is showing these pathetic girls that they have got nothink on you. your husband should also be sending a clear message to them !





    answer mine please http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
    Flirting is a game. The game is only over when someone askes you out.


    Look at it this way, the flirting is safe flirting. They know he's obviously taken, so they want him that much more. Flirting is a safe way to display interest, but also be sure that you wont hook up. A lot of women wont cheat or particiapate in cheating. But flirting is still funn!
    ALL THE CUTEST SWEETEST


    GUYS ARE USUALLY MARRIED THATS WHY!! ND TO WARD THEM OFF... SAY COME ON HONEY OR KISS HIM RIGHT IN FRONT OF THEM..

    How can I deal with other women flirting with my husband?

    I get really hacked off when other women flirt with y husband. He's friendly and great to chat to, unlike lots of men in our social circle, which is partly why I love him. Unfortunately other women (one in particular) take this as an opportunity to flirt. don't mind if they're good friends, and just having a bit of a laugh but there is one in particular who is constantly calling him a nickname and touching his arm and it really gets to me. He of course thinks it is all just friendliness and I have no suspicions whatsoever that he is or has been unfaithful. It annoys me because I feel like they're disrespecting me (it seems to go hand in hand with ignoring me, or being considerably less friendly, even though I try to be friends with everyone). Any advice GREATLY appreciated...How can I deal with other women flirting with my husband?
    While I can relate to your situation, as I myself have a cute hubby who is a people person, people just cling to him %26amp; are drawn to him, %26amp; that,s ok, as I am the woman who he comes to night after night, I am the woman who he shares his most intimate secrets %26amp; dreams, %26amp; just like me, you have a hubby who comes home to only you! At the end of the day, this man is all yours! %26amp; from what Im hearing from you I just cant see that your doing anything wrong or behaving in a imature manner, so what if some bimbo flirts with him, he is yours, not hers! %26amp; He loves you! If you start showing jealous behavior %26amp; actions, this will cause your husband to question your trust %26amp; respect in him, %26amp; then you will have problems, so just keep on dealing with it as a strong independent woman, as these are the reasons your husband picked you as his wife, dont change that! %26amp; Who cares if some woman doesnt respect you? The only person who requires your respect is your hubby, so stop feeling weak, %26amp; understand what %26amp; whos important here, not the bimbo, not his friends, but you %26amp; him!How can I deal with other women flirting with my husband?
    as an Italian woman I could never accept all you said, na lieeeeeee-o! it's all a lie what he says though he may not know, but his ';friends'; do for sure so ... if you don't want to pass as a ';stupid and ingenuous'; wife.. well... either you beat them or warn him seriously
    While it is apparent he does not mind and you do, he is blowing off your emotions, and is truely not showing any respect towards you or your wishes.





    Tell him that if he does not put an end to this soon, then you will go to her and tell her yourself, do not be afraid, show your husband you have a backbone and fight for you man, and if he gets upset that you are doing this, then tell him that he is making no move to get her off his arm, and now it is your turn.





    Your husband is your man, go to her tell her to ';get off'; on someone else and if you ever catch her on his arm again you will personally see to it that everyone knows what kind of a ';flirt'; among other things, she is at work!!!!!





    Your husband thinks you are not going to do anything and he loves the ';thrill'; of the ';game'; show him otherwise, that there is no ';thrill'; in it for you and that this ';game'; is not fun for you anymore!!!!!!





    Get a backbone, be tough, girlfriend and fight for your man!!!!





    Get that horndog off of his arm!!!!!





    That is what I would do!!!!!!!
    My advise is to tell your husband that you do not appreciate what he is doing and how you feel about it....He knows exactly what is going on so don't let him fool you....he eats up that attention and it is about the same as cheating on you....I wouldn't like it done to me either.....And I am glad that it don't, but my wife and I are not that way. You should give your husband the ';whats for'; about that and don't let him slide or try to get out of it......(smile)
    I find myself smiling when I see other women flirting with my husband. I think he's the sexiest man in the world, so I would expect others to find him attractive. I know he's in love with me, and he makes no secret of it to others. In a twisted way, it makes me feel good that others want him and can't have him.





    However, if it were a friend of mine who constantly flirted to the point I felt it was flaunted in my face, I certainly would have a talk with my husband about boundries and let him know it is his place to tell her to back off. There is a fine line between innocent flirting and disrepect.
    Stop being so possessive and live with it or he may run into her arms and then you will regret what ever you said in the past about him - love and respect him for him and justice will serve
    You cannot control another's actions - only your own. To some extent you do have some control over your spouse's actions for you have become ';one-flesh'; with him through marriage (his body is yours and yours, his) and you will be held accountable unto him and him unto you.


    For this, your problem is not with any other person than your husband! HE is the one that you should deal with. Somehow, in his actions and words, he is not supporting you as his wife and your jealousy is not unfounded.


    Women come on to me continually (no joke) and my wife is not jealous one tiny bit for she knows that she is #1 and nothing, NOTHING will pull me away from her. She is content in her position as wife and I give her all honor and respect for her place in my life.


    Your husband is not. Take this to him for he is the one being irresponsible.


    May I recommend the book - ';Boundaries'; by Cloud and Townsend for you / he have boundary issues to define and establish. He is crossing the line and you are feeling the pain.
    Try and ignore it. If you think the women have crossed the line, take them aside individually and say that it bothers you when they blatently flirt with your husband. Tell them you think its great that your husband can have so many friends, but you would appreciate it if they kept the behaviors platonic. This is, however, risky as it may cause hurt feelings.





    The important thing is that you trust your husband. It takes two people to be ';cheating';, etc, so you have nothing to worry about. These women probably have nothing better to do than to flirt with married men. It's quite sad, really.
    I imagine your husband is Innocent, as you say, but unfortunately there are women who insist upon behaving this way, sooooo shameful!!! I think the best way to handle this is let your husband know how it makes you feel, maybe he could be less friendly with her. He could say my name is Bill, not Mr. Hotty (example only:) ), and definitely pull away when she touches him and then turn his attention to you. She will eventually get the hints, get bored and move on to some other poor woman's husband. So sorry for you, she is being VERY disrespectful to you.
    He's with you, right? Be happy.
    Lady, have you heard the phrase familiarity breeds contempt. It is normal that when you get to know a person too well that he or she takes you for granted. I do not know your levels of faith or belief in God but i will not take the spiritual angle right now.


    You need to be extremely nice and not aggressive-you must start taking care of yourself-go the the gymn and work out a little and start pampering yourself-buy some good clothes for yourself-get your hairstyle better-get a facial-and begin to looking great. Them you must start concentrating on what you do-maybe a job etc and keeping away and ignore what he does.


    Men like attention and hate to be ignored-once you start looking good and intelligent he will start liking you. NEVER LET YOURSELF BE TAKEN FOR GRANTED. Start building your self respect-always remember it swings both ways-guys will start recognising you for your beauty and brains and start flirting with you and believe me you too will enjoy it and make your husband jealous as well.


    Always remember that people including your parents see you as they want to see you and not as you want to see yourself-it is either God or your parents who want to see you as you want to see yourself-that鈥檚 the catch-your husband comes in other people-that鈥檚 human nature unless your husband has a strong belief in God and has massive love and compassion.


    Start enjoying life and do not become vain and bitter because it will only make you look uglier. It is a beautiful world and you have a right to be here-you are no lesser than the moon and the stars-you are a beautiful person.


    Take care and be blessed.
    Get him to join an all mens group. Stay away from the women.

    I think an older women flirted with me! What should I do?

    First Fact: I'm 26.





    last night I was going home from work so stop by a pizza place to end my hunger. While I'm eating and check the news on my phone, a woman wearing a tank top (with no under dress) sits in front of in the other table with her friend (an woman). So take a look and I say in my mind: ';Look at her, she's probably 45-46 and still dressing sexy. Whatta self confidence!';. Frankly, she was somehow sexy, fitted and had makeup.





    So, I keep eating my pizza without really thinking about her anymore and I realized that she speaks my mother-tongue. So I jumped in and we talked about politics and some other boring and very unsexy stuff.





    When she's done with her dinner, she walks to me to shake hands and introduces herself. So stand up and shake hands and say my name.





    She asked me how often I come here. So, I say: ';not very often but I usually hang out not too far from here';.





    And she says: ';We are usually here for walking everynight and hope to see out again'; !





    And she left with a big smile in her face. I admit that she was very feminine and stunning at her age.





    I'm not a sexy guy, but I'm tall and I'm big but not an athlete.





    Here's my question, should I go there again and to see her, cause I'm single and I feel the need to have sex but I don't want a relationship with an older woman, although she's sexy.





    What should I do? Was she really flirting with me, or it's just how I like to think about it?I think an older women flirted with me! What should I do?
    Go for it dude, you have nothing to lose and she could show you things in bed that will rock your world. Just keep going back there and talk to her some more and see where it leads. You already know her name so your have an advantage.

    Why can't black many black men see that white women use them?

    Now I'm not a black man that would never desperate enough to date a white girl but some of y'all be pissing me off. My friend invited me to this nasty azz group and I just had to look at the members. I couldn't help but notice that a majority of the white girls in this group are either fat, old and/ or just plain unattractive, common among white girls who ';love black men.';





    I've been told numerous times that I am very good looking ';for a black guy.'; And they act as if that's supposed to mean something more because it's coming from them the ';epitome of beauty'; LOL. I've had fat, ugly white women come up and flirt as if they KNOW I will be interested and then they actually get surprised when I tell them to waddle their fat cellulite@$$#$ out of my face. Doesn't it bother any of y'all that you are somebody's last resort? They think they are too good for you. Unless of course you have money...





    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wbFYsJ_C0jM%26amp;feature=related


    Notice the white woman at :35 says that a man of color needs to provide ';extra security'; AKA have more $$$$ in order to be worthy of her.





    Here is another article.


    http://www.nypress.com/18/49/news%26amp;columns/SusanCrainBakos.cfm


    Here is another white woman who ';started to love black men'; at 40.





    Here is what she looks like. (She is the fat @$$ sundamaged, trool on the left)


    http://www.metacafe.com/watch/2169727/susan_crain_bakos_goes_to_babeland/





    Isn't it funny that in their younger days, when they think they are the $h!t, white women think they are too good for a black man (LMAO) but when they start looking nasty (for white women that's like 28 or so.) or get fat, they all of a sudden ';love'; black men. One of these nasty b!$%#es approached me at work and I had to tell her to get her sundamaged, tuna colored *** out of my face and go to pilates or something.





    Just goes to show how superficial, self righteous and VERY racist white women really are. Seriously, not every black man is desperate enough to date you. Black men, don't we deserve better?





    Doesn't this bother any of you?





    Here is a youtube video talking about it!


    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iqJbb2aBaxw





    And my friends wonder why I take a white woman flirting with me as an insult.Why can't black many black men see that white women use them?
    What? I'm confused...I mean if you have a problem with white women then date whatever women you want to. This seems pretty ridiculous and small-minded to me.Why can't black many black men see that white women use them?
    If they're dating, probably not.
    i dont think they care. they just want to date them.
    I don't know.
    idk not every girl does!
    Does what bother me?
    Since we all know that you are not black. You are a WHITE boy who can only get fat white chicks if that who spends his days and nights searching for Youtube videos and yahoo answers that involve black people. Then you post racial comments that for some strange reason get you aroused when you are tired of watching porn. Come on now this is getting pretty old and lame.
    If you don't like the thought of dating a white woman, that's your choice, but that's where your choices end. Beyond that, what follows is a bigoted rant that is mired more in mean-spiritedness than in any actual facts. Live in ways that make you feel happy and fulfilled, and allow others to do the same in peace.
    youre reading too much into it. Youre just jealous Dennis Rodman bagged Carmen Elektra.





    Now go home and get laid by your black blow up doll
    Well, ask yourself this.





    Does it not work the other way round too?
    WoW racist much!!!! and not all white women are like that i will admit there are alot like that but theres also black women like that to!! Just cause you have seen some white grls like that doesn't mean you have to go judging everyone else! that is being very Stereotypical!!
    I think you're probably being a bit stereotypical...





    I've got no problems with skin colour whatsoever and if I had a crush on a black guy then hell yeah I'd have a crush on a black guy- it makes no difference to skin colour. Maybe its bothering you because YOU have an objection to mix racial dating. Therefore the women should be insulted that their compliments are thrown back in their faces because you're the racist one.

    How do you deal with other women flirting with your boyfriend?

    My boyfriend of a year is really attractive; he was a model before he moved from California. He's also completely loyal to me, so I'm not worried that he'll cheat on me, but this issue has been bothering me.





    Wherever we go, women stare at him and flirt with him. He's nice to everyone, not just these women. He always goes out of his way to smile at people and ask them how their days are going. I guess this could be misconstrued as flirting in the case of these women. I don't mind people looking at him--believe me, I understand how gorgeous he is! But it bothers me when because he smiled at them, they get really smug with me. At lunch today (our anniversary, btw) he smiled at a waitress(not even our server!), and she kept passing by to check him out. On her return trip, she'd smirk at me, and it made me really uncomfortable. Right before we left, she darted over the table to see if she could refill his water glass, asking ';Was this iced tea?'; and shoving her chest forward. He said, ';No, my girlfriend was drinking iced tea,'; and she got the hint.





    I'm tired of dealing with this; I just want to be able to go out and have fun with my boyfriend without being interrupted by other women. At times, it definitely seems like these people are judging me for being with him, and that tends to put me in a bad mood. I'd love some ideas for dealing with girls in situations like this without being outright rude or making a huge deal out of it--maybe subtle things to make them shut up?





    So, any advice for ways to deal with drooling women? I'm getting pretty sick of it. Help is very much appreciated.How do you deal with other women flirting with your boyfriend?
    You should definately talk to your boyfriend about how you feel if you haven't already. he might lay off the smiling, i think that gives girls the impression that he's in to them.


    if you hold his hand and get a little closer to him in public, i dont think he'd get as much attention from other girls, because it would be more clear that hes taken(: hope this helps!
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    A married man and woman flirt for months at work – there’s staring (lots of it!), a lot of smiling, touching (from him), compliments, he always makes time for her and gives her a lot more attention than everyone else…





    The woman gets pregnant and so does the guy’s wife. The guy always starts conversations with the woman, even when she’s just walking by his office – lately, he has complained about his wife’s behavior, how she yells at him, and praised the woman for how “calm” and “even-keeled” she always is, and how he always thinks about how his wife is not like the woman…





    One day, the whole department is having lunch together, and one of the older men stops the conversation and says to the married guy: “(Guy’s name), you missed a comment that (woman’s name) just made… She said that, when it comes to pregnancy, men have it just as hard as women!”. She keeps talking about how she WANTS to yell at her husband, but never does, b/c he’s so good to her and doesn’t deserve it – and that she would never do that even though she’s pregnant, etc.





    The guy says to her “Oh! I want to give you a hug!!” and goes on to say that he’ll take her quote and have it as a disclaimer at the end of his e-mail signature, and how he’d love it if she could “tell his wife how to behave like that”, etc. They keep gushing over how perfect a wife the woman is.





    Then, the older guy says: “(Woman’s name) is setting the standard for how pregnant women should behave…”. The married guy looks straight at her, smiles and says “(Woman’s Name) sets ALL the standards…”. Ignoring everyone else around them, he continues to stare deeply into her eyes after he’s finished saying it - and she stares back.





    What do his comments mean? Does he have a crush?Does he want to cheat??? Men's opinions - or women who know men!!?
    There is obviously some kind of affection between the man and the woman. It doesn't mean through that the guy wants to cheat or that he even has a crush on her. It may just be a close friendship in his mind and that it's ok to say those things to her.





    If you really wanted to know if it was more than that, you would have to ask if he were single, would he go out with her or something to that affect. There is a big difference between innocent flirting and wanting to cheat on your spouse.



    Old Question, Same Answer. Can men and women be friends without sex?

    Me and my fiance were talking this morning and she asked me if I had heard from my female friends from my old job. I was let go from it back in Dec but stayed in touch with a few people I closely worked with. My girl thinks that because most of the guys she's met in her life always wanted to sleep with her then every guy wants to sleep with every girl he's met. My girl is high yella with long straight hair and she weighs about 120 lbs.





    She thinks that every guy who meets a girl wants to sleep with her right off the bat wheither he has a girlfriend or not. She made mention to talk about some guy on her job who's younger than her who likes older women and apparently who's made a few comments to her about wanting to get with her. So, with that she assumes I'm doing that with my female co-workers, or ex-coworkers. Yes, we still touch bases with each other. An email here or there to say, ';hey, how have you been.'; Or, ';how are the kids doing?'; She even asked if we talked about sex. I didn't lie to her, yes, sometimes our conversations did mention sex but that still didn't mean I wanted to get with them or them with me. If my girl had her way I'd only invite guys to our wedding and she would only invite women.





    I told her that not only do men flirt and she said, ';yes, women flirt back.'; Meaning, men flirt first.





    What do you guys think? Has my girl been jaded with everyone thinking that because most guys want to sleep with her every guy wants to sleep with every girl he meets or befriends. And is there anything wrong with friends exchanging email addresses or phone numbers even though they are dating someone. My girl thinks that's a no no and could lead to something more. Hell, just giving a stranger a friendly nod on the street could lead to something but it doesn't always happen.





    What goes through a woman or man's mind to think that everytime their mate talks to or talks about some one of the opposite sex they think they want to sleep with them?Old Question, Same Answer. Can men and women be friends without sex?
    90-% of the time noOld Question, Same Answer. Can men and women be friends without sex?
    Out of respect for your fiance, I think you should be more careful and considerate of her level of comfortability with which other women you are talking to. Women can be very protective,territorial and jelous by nature and if you don't NEED to talk to these other women then you probably shouldn't

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    sounds like she doesn't trust or respect you...





    {and if that is the case, she'll constantly be suspicious of you and your actions, which will KILL the relationship}





    without trust and respect, you have nothing but a sham....





    tell her that...
    maybe she is projecting some guilt onto you. she might be fantasizing about her male co-worker!
    your lady friend is very insecure.
    yes, most of the men want to go to bed with all the women they meet..


    but not all of them..
    my sons bestfriend is a female. they act like brother and sister. they argue lol she is engaged and lives with her boyfriend . my son crashes over there sometimes on the couch. my son is the only guy she can hang with. she is even trying to set my son up with a girlfriend of hers.

    Was this women trying to get my attention by flirting?

    Ladies: Was this woman flirting with me or not?


    Ladies: Was this woman flirting with me or not?


    Ladies: Was this woman flirting with me or not?


    At work, there was a rep from out of town that I would see once in a while and I think she caught on to me being friendly with her (I find her very attractive, but try to remain professional and not schmoozey)


    and she always gives me a big smile ';how're you doing';, she'll grin or grin back after I just say it to her regularly and then smiled and said hi and just looked very happy, jolly. I think it's her personality.





    One day I came into her office and she was on the comp and she said ';hey, you...'; and I said hi and I asked her about her state. Then she told me about it, and we started talking about sports there and if it was close to any good beaches...





    Then she told me, that there was one place, and then (she was wearing a skirt), she mentioned that when she went the water usually touched a spot, and she put her hand briefly on the side of her knee cap where her skirt ended.....





    then





    A question:





    Did she know I was tiptoing about trying to visualize her in beachwear?





    Girls know guys make convo to pry about things sometimes right?





    And was that flirting?Was this women trying to get my attention by flirting?
    No. She wasn't flirting. I hate to burst your bubble. She was just being friendly with her coworker. See, guys 'read into' every situation with a woman. Men think gals are thinking the same as they are, but women don't think about sex 90 minutes out of every hour like men do :-)Was this women trying to get my attention by flirting?
    yeah, id think she was. and thankyou, women do know everything lol





    and even if she wasnt you should ask her to go on a date wiht you somtime. you sais you only see her from time to time so if she says no it wont even be that awkward.
    im a guy but everyone knows that that is defenitly flirting and yes she did know u were picturing her cuz for sum wierd reason girls know everything!!!! lol

    What happened to respectful women?

    i remember when u could ask a woman out, the 2 of u would go on a date, ect. ect.





    but it feels like my generation is going down the drain lately, and i know there is respectful women out there, but why am i not finding them?





    lately all i am seeing is girls less interested in relationships, and more interested in one night stands or cheating on the person theyre already with, why is that? what happened to finding a good relationship and dedicating urself to it?





    but the biggest problem i have now... im 21 (yes its known as that party age) but how come most of the women i know my age... think having fun is going out and getting drunk or using drugs?





    im sick of the ways that alot of women flirt around, get drunk alot, use drugs, and degrade themselves by dressing like ';hoochie momma's';





    and i know this ISNT the problem with EVERY woman, but its VERY common problem among women of my age... what really happened to women being more respectful?





    the way i was raised... a woman was supposed to act ';lady like';, not go around cursing, they were supposed to go around showing there body off to every guy they see





    it just seems that alot of women my age have lost respect for themselves %26amp; who they really are





    ...and dont let me get started on women my age having kids... i cant tell u the number of women i met that simply say ';i want a baby right now'; without having a relationship or any reason to be thinking that yet





    is there any possible way to find a good %26amp; respectful women? and what should i be looking for?What happened to respectful women?
    It is possible to find a good %26amp; respectful woman. I would recommend joining a church that is located in a good area of your town. Most women that go to church services respect God and follow the Bible, and are probably not like that.What happened to respectful women?
    and a lot of girls dream about their guy being nice and caring but all they find is wanna-be jerks all around.


    i am a girl and my life's wish is to find a guy that at least doesn't slap ';back pockets'; all the time.





    look in a library, a church, a club, an orginazation, or a charity....


    you'll find ';her'; someday.. :)
    Its because a lot of parents are no longer teaching values and morals. There are a lot of good women out there....Maybe stop looking for them in the party environment...Or just wait, your time will come...If your a good guy, you'll get your good girl...Dont worry just live your life and do the things that make you happy right now...
    dude i think i just fell inlove with you haha... im a girl yes cant you tell but what your explaining is the exact kind of guys i meet. i just want a relationship, where i know i wont get cheated on, broken and someone who likes to talk and hang out...
    man i am 15 and shy *** hell to talk to girls but i observe a lot of thing girls my generation only like you for your money if you live in new york you will find nothing but them kind of slut don't get me wrong i lov3 ev3ry kinda girl but aleast 2 out of 5 are them type of hoes
    Look for older girls who are past the party stage, or girls your age who aren't partiers. Sorry if you don't like any girls like that, but it's all you can do bro.
    i am 28 years old gentleman and i know what you mean it is hard if not impossible to find good women it's like finding a needle in a hay stack
    they were raised wrong so they act like that further out in rural areas have better women or you could look in at a better college like a UC because there they might be serious.
    i ask myself the same thing. its the whole men and women are equal crap. well guess what we are not!!! men cant get pregnant!
    they still exist. they are generally older and wiser
    i kno wat u mean. im 16 and i understand. the real problem is that ';society'; ';trend'; ';fashion'; and the media has put them like this
    wat hath women become?
    It's all about environment. You probably live in a really small town, don't you? It was like that with me.
    just what u said. u should be looking for a good respectable woman. and there out there they are just with all the wrong men at the present time. dnt give up there is still some of us left in the world. try looking in church or at college. but i totally agree with u. women or so stupid when it come to there life and what they want to become. i love the fact that i was raised right. 23 about to graduate in may from broadcasting school no kids (whoo)! and work full time. (o god im so tired lol). trust me there is more of us out there u just have to be willing to be patient and look. keep ya head up
    wow i feel the same way to about finding a good guy because i was raised the old fashioned way and in the church way. but sorry to say you will look long and hard and when you find that good girl


    you will not let her go. Okay realistically she will have things about her that you dont like but if she tries and change just a little then she is worth it





    You clearly have a mature mind so you will need to look for girls or better yet look for LADIES that are smart, maybe church girls or artists or someone who values beauty and classy things im not really sure because ive never dated a girl.





    at times people who are older are usually more calm because their age says they have to be or life its self will calm down a wild spirit. test a persons mind, financial status, spiritual beliefs, what are their hobbies, and if any of these answers result in you wanting to get tested for STD's and you havent slept with them yet then they are not for you
    I'm a girl, but I couldn't agree more (although too many guys DO cheat on their girlfriends) But what your saying is true, it's unattractive for girls or anyone to do that, but at the same time at the age of 21 people just like to party and drink/drugs because they fell like that's the only way to have fun (not true) and that you better do it now before you get to old. But I defineltly feel the same about guys because I haveso many friends and have heard so many stories of guys cheating on their wives/girlfriends and leave them heart broken. Anyways IT IS possible to find a good women. The girls that are respectful are the ones that are calm, sweet, and mostly MATURE with good manners that will respect you and their own bodies. You sound like a sweet guy that I would defineltly go for. (you don't know how many times a guy likes me, but obviously wants me only for sex which I would never do untill I know I love them) All in all you need to look for some one conservative (maybe a conservative looking girl in on of your classes, if you go to school) Hope I helped and best wishes!
    Hey there, you seem like a nice guy and I know what you mean. I'm not much older than you.. just a few years, but I even notice this with the younger girls in my family. I think a lot of it has to do with self esteem issues, that they feel they need to do or act or dress a certain way to please a guy. Little do they know that it's not really what a good guy wants (well, that's just my opinion anyway). Plus, look at the celebrity role models these people had... Its cool to go out and have a good time with friends, but a lot of times it goes way past that. I don't really think there is anything YOU can really do, but I am positive that there are 'your type' of chicks out there. If your in school, try meeting someone at school...
    well i'm a 21 year old girl and i don't act like that at all. Not to be harsh but if you're only looking at the super attractive girls that's all you are going to get. There are a lot of partiers at 21, but i don't think you are looking in the right places. Instead of looking for girls at parties, talk to the girls in the library on a friday night, i'm sure you'd be surprised on the nice girls you'd meet :)
    unfortunately this problem of the way girls act and dress is only going to get alot worse i wish it wouldt but it will. the good respectful women is out there i guess it just comes down to being at the right place at the right time and if its meant to be then it will happen just remember that not all girls are like these foul mouthed lay abouts thats me trying to describe them nicely sorry.
    heyyy I'm not like that! haha no but I get what you mean. I know why. (being a girl myself, even though I'm not like that). Well, girls think that partying, wearing tight clothes, and all round flirting is sexy and brings a guys attention no matter what. Its disgusting, but they think its cute and will attract a testorone filled boy in no time (which 90% of the time, it does). Thens the other 10%, like you, are left thinking, ';how was this girl even raised?';. I was actually surprised that you think that way. because its hard to find guys that aren't fully engrossed in a woman's breast or tight jeans.


    :/ It's messed up isn't it?
    I thought I was the only person who thought that way...


    Maybe it's due to the changing times, isn't it? It's obvious that women are not the same now, as they were 20 years back in time...


    Don't worry dude, one day you'll a women who fits all your needs, that day will come, and you'll remember somehow what I said.


    Good Luck!
    I think I am a respectable woman. I'm 20, I dont go out partying ever weekend, I dont drink or smoke, I dont do any kind of drugs, I am always focused on everything I do, I dress conservatively and stylish at the same time, I dont just go head over heels for any guys. It takes a lot for me to accept people in my life. They almost have to have a passport to be a part of my life. I only engage in friendships and relationships with people that are respectable and smart..
    You are absolutely right about that.


    It is very hard to find a ';respectful'; girl at that age.


    Just remember, there is a person for everyone.


    If a smart, sweet, ladylike, caring,funny, adventurous girl is what you are looking for, you will find her some day, don't worry. It may seem impossible but you will eventually find someone that is not like that. Girls like that are not hard to find if you don't just look, but you are actually seeing. I wish you luck:)
    What happened to all the respectful men?





    Dont pin it all on women; all of the drunken idiots i have seen where i live have all been males, showing off to their pathetic mates and treating girls like crap. Why the hell would i want someone like that coming over and slobbering on me?





    Most people have no respect for themselves, male and female.

    How do I know if a women is into me, romantically or sexually interested in me?

    I am a 43 year old man who is just now getting into flirting with women. I have been seriously intimidated by flirting with women I like all my life, and was never able to get past this Phobia of asking a woman out. At the age of 43, I am going threw what usually a teenager would. I have no clue as to how to be succesfull in women wanting to go out with me, or be my mate, let alone knowing if she is into me, or just being regular nice and friendly. I need your help here because I am sick of being alone. I want to be successful with women, and have women flirt with me and show me they are into me, and have success in having a woman like me enough to go out with me. Men---I need your input on this, Ladies, please talk to me here and help me out.





    Thanks.





    CharlesHow do I know if a women is into me, romantically or sexually interested in me?
    If you read books, I recommend ';The Game'; by Neil Strauss.





    It'll tell you everything you need to know about women/relationships.





    It's got some pretty dangerous material in there though. But it's supposed to help out people that have trouble with females. I have the same problem with women, and it changed how I view everything completely. It helped me a lot. Really, I would give you more advice, but I don't think I could tell you everything that that book could teach you. This is from personal experience with the same problem. It's all factual events too.





    Anyway, I'll come back and post later if there isn't any better advice for you.

    How do you compliment/flirt with an INTP Woman?

    I am dating a INTP woman, which I admit is very different for me because she is still not very much into her feelings side, and she has exceptionally logical minded. I mentioned this too her, she told me that she was ';shy'; because she really likes me, and does not want to mess it up. Typically I am very good at managing and flirting in a relationship, but with her I am stuck because I do not know what will make her smile and feel good... Listening appears to work best so far, but this is not flirting.. So my question is this to other fellow women INTP's...





    What approach is best to make her feel special, and compliment her looks?How do you compliment/flirt with an INTP Woman?
    I am an INT and both preferences for P and J are slight so I feel I can answer your question. INTPs are logical people and what you say has to make sense. Be original and sincere. Make it brief and get to the point quickly. Do not be surprised though if she seems embarrassed by the compliments. If you can make her laugh she may open up to you even more. Stay away from anything corny. Find out what kind of humor she likes (tv shows, comedians or jokes etc.) as well as what kind she does not like. Flirting is a bit tougher but I think that has more to do with way that the two of you relate to one another than Myers Briggs. No matter what, do not smooth talk her. She will see right through it. Good luck!How do you compliment/flirt with an INTP Woman?
    I have no clue what an ';INTP Woman) is.





    You said you talked with her and she said she liked you and didn't want to mess it up....Take that as a compliment aand don't push her for anything further...shes not ready or comfortable to go beyond that right now.





    Talk about things that you both enjoy, compliment her from time to time when she looks good, maybe when she says something that makes you feel good tell her that it did.





    Don't over do the compliments or single her out because that might make her feel uncomfortable or like you are being phony.





    Relax and be yourself...that seems to be what she likes...just you being you.
    Maybe involve both of you in activites that you both can learn, for example, scrabble, puzzles or an educational game. I have to be honest w/ you, it will be alot of work for you in the long run, and less response from her. INTP are not quick reactors when it comes to emergencies or sudden changes. If you were willing to accept that than thats great. Again, find things you both can do which, thats would a nice gift/ compliment, objects makes me happy. I had a neighbor like that.
    wtf is INTP?
    Can u hand me Oxford American Abbreviation Dictionary plz?

    How to know if a woman is mad at you.?

    I know this lady and we flirt a lot. One day I was just sitting with a bunch of girls and a guy friend right next to me.( was not flirting with the women just sitting next to them) I saw her and said hi. We were gonna go somewhere that day. I tried to talk to her but she ignored me. what does this mean?How to know if a woman is mad at you.?
    Means she's mad at you.How to know if a woman is mad at you.?
    Usually when a woman ignores you she's either jealous or mad at you.
    she's probably mad or jealous
    She's probably jealous. Maybe thinks you're using her... flirting with her, and then with other girls too. She probably likes you. Like, really likes you.

    How to lower my sex drive ?

    This may be to early for me but i really need this type of help im 14 and need a lower urge im constanly having wet dreams masturbating and flirting with women





    any help mate's????How to lower my sex drive ?
    At the beginning years like 14 years, it is quite common problem for all the boys. The urge will reduce naturally .. so dont worry for this simple


    problem! Be cool and enjoy your life!!How to lower my sex drive ?
    Think about someone you find repulsive. Or you could think about something that is disgusting. The second doesn't work for me though it makes it worse. Think about ugly a** dudes that too should help.
    Yeah, the sex drive of men gradually decreases with age. It should be controllable by the time you turn 60.
    jackoff! =)
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    **** off more often.

    After meeting someone new, how do you smoothly state your intentions?

    so...this mid-30s woman flirted with me, a mid-20s guy, onboard a plane. sufficiently put, she gave me her number (verified, i asked), and she said i had nice pants.





    at the same time, i just want to make sure she's not...like thinking we're soul mates or anything, and i just want a the date(s) to be casual and nice in bed!





    how do i clarify this without sounding like a d-bag?After meeting someone new, how do you smoothly state your intentions?
    no woman in her mid 30 who is intelligent enough to be able to buy her own plane ticket would think u re her soul mate after one casual date. so if i were u i wouldn't be worried about thatAfter meeting someone new, how do you smoothly state your intentions?
    Maybe take her somewhere casual instead of romantic so it won't seem as if you're trying to ';woo'; her. Whenever the relationship topic comes up, just say casually that you are looking for something casual and that you are not looking to have a serious relationship at this point in your life. You can emphasize the fact that you are still young and not ready to commit to anything. Or that you're only in town for a few days (you met on a plane, right?)





    That way, if she is looking for something serious, she'll realize right then that you are not right for each other. And if she still decides to sleep with you anyway knowing that it won't be anything more than just sex, then that's her decision, and you shouldn't feel guilty since you were honest up front. On the other hand, if she's looking for just a hook-up as well, she'll know that you're on the same page...score for both of you!
    By the time we hit our 30's you can be honest about these things with us. If she came onto you then she is probably looking for the same thing you are a casual time.
    ';Look, all I want from you is a couple dates and a roll in the hay.';





    BTW... this really is not an ETIQUETTE question... but thanks for asking!








    Have a polite day.
    Call her up and ask what she has in mind. I think she's interested in what's in those nice pants of yours.

    How do I reconcile my Christian values with my carnal nature?

    Like paul, I am imprisoned in my body of flesh. I am married and love my family very much. I don't drink, smoke or use drugs, but my circumstances (travelling a lot) have led to me to revert to immoral thoughts and behaviour. I flirt with women whenever I get the chance and go to extremes when chatting and communicating on the internet icluding BDSM and pornography. I am cuaght in a vicious trap and know not how to get out. Do any more of you have the same problem. Is there any remedy. I know Christ is the answer. But I have tried but failed so many times and I feel rotten to repent daily.How do I reconcile my Christian values with my carnal nature?
    It is a constant battle. Check out a few of the Christian websies, you are not alone on this one, especially in our community. You have to start denying yourself. I know a saved man that stopped going on the computer when he was alone, because the temptation was too great for him to battle alone. Also find someone you can trust to help pray you through it. Some burdens we are not meant to carry alone.How do I reconcile my Christian values with my carnal nature?
    Gee, when I read the Bible, I don't see a single place where Christ talks about sex. Your problem is not with Christ. It's with your religion.
    Christianity is based on the hypocritical denial of our carnal selves. Dump the mythology.
    I'll try to give a serious answer. It appears that you have developed some urges that are in conflict with your beliefs. Despite what naysayers will suggest, you should not abandon your beliefs as long as you know that you have come to them with an open mind and heart. Only you know that for certain, but I'll assume that you have.





    What it seems like is that you have developed lusts, which would be characterised as sins of the flesh. Yes, this can be a difficult struggle to deal with, even with prayer and meditation. I can tell that it is bothering you a lot.





    If I were to take a guess, it might be possible that your physical nature is actually crying out for some reason. I don't like the simple ';Satan is tempting you'; response as there are real psychological processes that might be responsible for where your mind is taking you.





    Probably the best thing is to seek out counseling. Your priest/pastor should be helpful in the spiritual aspects, but I also suggest speaking about this with a psychologist or psychiratist. There may be a solution that requires physical attention, and Jesus himself said that the sick need a doctor.





    Some of the things that you think about are not necessarily evil if the context is proper. If you can imagine your thoughts applying to your wife without any harm, then perhaps it is not a matter of the thought but where the thought goes. I might suggest that you include your wife in whatever counselling that you undergo. It might be a matter that can be helped out tremendously by her.





    Lastly, try not to beat up on yourself. That is something that I would suspect that Satan would enjoy seeing of you. Just remember that you are human, and humans do not become perfect overnight. What your greatest victory will be is to arise above the gloom and despair that your lusts have brought you to and declare that they do not define you. When you begin to do that, I suspect that things will turn around.





    I wish you well with your trials.
    I would get an accountability software from online, where all your website visits would be emailed to one other person. There are various options for this, some which you have to purchase. A free one is from x3watch.com, also check out xxxchurch.com. Good luck.


    And PRAY. That's the most you can do.
    We are all at enmity with Jesus. When the thought of flirting comes into your mind, Lord help me become an over-comer. The Lord will hear and deliver you from this. In a world of such pressure to lean to condemnation of oneself and not to seek the divine intervention it makes it worse. Every time Satan bombards you with this just breath that little prayer, Lord help me to overcome this. He will hear you. Each and everytime you overcome makes it easier. Soon you will be guilt free and Satan will have nothing to accuse you of. Keep the good faith and fight the good fight. You will overcome. We all have things in our lives that we need to overcome. Remember each day is another day to take a step forward in faith.
    You pray for God's grace to give you the strength to resist the temptations of the flesh. I do, and believe me it , does work.
    Maybe Christianity isn't for you. Regardless, it's still not right to cheat on your wife. Maybe you just just let your carnal self go in the bedroom with your wife. Maybe she's into BDSM, how do you know if you don't ask her? Back to Christianity...I guess if that's what you truly believe, though, you are just going to have to stick with it and try and get as much support as you can from the Bible and religious leaders.
    simple: only have sex with Christians.
    We are all human, and God obviously understands this, which is why we have the option to repent in the first place. But if you truely want to open your life to Christ there is something often referred to as crucifying the flesh. You are in control of your own actions, as hard as it may be at times. It sounds like you need to give up control and pray for guidance, willpower, and strength. Make a whole-hearted effort to catch yourself when you're doing something you know God wouldn't want you to do. After all, the Bible says in so many words, that God would rather have your heart be cold than lukewarm. Just think about how much God loves you and cares about you. Everything you do should serve as a testimony to your appreciation for being saved. God DOES have a plan for you, but you must be maliable to his loving hands. After all...who better to entrust the direction of your life to than the creator of the universe?
    Carefully
    Paul was probably gay, so don't worry about his problems for now.





    First of all, you need to discuss this with your wife. Tell her you love her and agree to couples counseling if you want to save your marriage.





    Second, you need to become a former Christian as soon as possible.

    How can girls sense a guy's confidence when shyness gets in the way?

    I think a reason why I am not good with women is that I'm generally quiet and shy around social settings (where you'd usually meet women) and I project the wrong vibe. I know women can really pick up on a guy's confidence, but how? I mean, I think I'm good looking and that I have a lot to offer, it is just the talking/flirting with women is what I'm not smooth at. I wouldn't say I get nervous around attractive women, I just am worried that I'll seem less confident. I've been able to go up to cute girls in my college classes and ask them to work on school stuff etc. But they all end up acting distant and not very social afterwards, like I'm a creepy guy or something. They would never really say hi if I saw them outside of classes etc. It seems the girls I meet never get a good impression of me. I'm not sure how to improve myself when interacting with women so this stops happening, and I become the kind of guy girls like to be around, not just romantic interest but for friends too.How can girls sense a guy's confidence when shyness gets in the way?
    i had the same problem, then i found the solution. act like an asshole. girls like assholes.How can girls sense a guy's confidence when shyness gets in the way?
    Usually people who are shy have low self confidence. To meet woman, you must be outgoing and at least try to make conversation. Don't wait for them to start! Start dating more often so you can practice flirting and get use to it. Sooner or later, you'll be a smoother talker and expert at dating! :)
    just be yourself. try to talk about more personal things then the weather. Not gunna lie though a little toughness (not a lot) goes a long way.





    help me please i have no answers :[


    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=ArYMhOJtyDlwwJ5KPP93fgDsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20080806184738AAArckC
    The sweet girls see the difference. If they don't like you because you're not an arrogant prick, they're not who you want.
    to the guy up there


    we dont like assholes


    we think you are assholes


    and just play it cool


    try to relax whenever you talk to a girl



    A good rule of tum is, don't listen to girls for advice on girls.





    I asked girls before on the same things you talked about. Girls have never helped me. Nope, in fact they have steered me wrong! I was so in the friend zone for years!





    The girls that just posted to you have just given you advice to become a nice guy. You should know this saying, ';nice guys finish last.'; Do you really want to be that nice guy? Or, do you want to get girls?





    Trust that dude on top. He his advice is gold. Gold I say!


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  • How to know if a married woman will cheat?

    I always talk a long time with this married woman and we flirt. The last time I saw her things seemed to heat up and when we left we had a long lingering hug.





    Now, this week, she's completely ignoring and avoiding me. She says hi, but we no longer talk and stuff. Do you think it's a sign she is developing some feelings for me? If I keep pursuing her do you think I can get her?How to know if a married woman will cheat?
    She's probably ignoring you because she's realized whats at stake, why not go find a nice single girl instead.How to know if a married woman will cheat?
    Just ease back. She probably realized what she's doing and it's her instinct to honor her husband. Just let it slide for now, and be ready if the opportunity ever comes again. The best way is to be receptive is she's might be having trouble at home..... then you can pop back into the picture and if all goes well, it's hopping to the nearest hotel.
    I would suggest you leave her alone ! First you know that she is married. Secondly, do you want her to have you charged with stalking her ? Maybe you would prefer to just meet her husband after she has told him about you.


    To me ? You seem too bright for these fun and games ! Just work on the single ones..........
    It's cat and mouse. Now it's your turn to ignore her. Just be there for her. Let her vent about the problems in her marriage and see a side of you that's free, but responsible. You will know when the time is right, invite her over for dinner and drinks.
    NO!! it means maybe she realized what a fool she been acting and now regrets it so a simple HI will do and she wants to leave it at that..


    she probably just likes the attn when hubby is not around
    I don't know why you would want to get her, to be honest with you.


    Is the possible sex worth the guilt and the possible broken home?


    Wouldn't you rather find a nice single girl with no baggage?
    She has a husband at home and someday he might come looking for you. I would not chase married women.
    Back off for awhile,Be nice when you see her,But stay away from her and she will come looking for you.
    You shouldn't have stopped with hug. Now she knows you are a wimp so she's moving on.
    Leave her alone shes married -

    Men...are you involved in a relationship with someone who has children from a previous relationship?

    I'm 26 years old. I've only dated one other girl who had kids and that was 4 years ago. It may not seem like much, but the four years between 22 and 26 are pretty huge in terms of personal development. I'm not the same guy I was 4 years ago. For your ease of reading, I'm going to give out their first names. The relationship 4 years ago was with Brandi. This new potential girl is Christie. With Brandi, our relationship was very relaxed. It was exclusive, but not very serious. She had 3 kids. She was 4 years older than me. We only dated for two months and I never met her children. Actually, I made it a point to not meet her children. I didn't want to introduce another male figure into their lives until I was absolutely sure that I wanted to date Brandi on a long term level. Long story short, we had a lot of fun, but nothing of any real substance to build a relationship on ever happened between us.





    Cut to now, I've dated several girls in between Brandi and today. None had children. Things didn't work out for various reasons. I dated my last girlfriend for about a year and she turned out to be a cheating whore. I haven't dated in about 10 months because of this. Trying to get over it and all that. So now there's this girl Christie who has 3 children. She's also 26 years old and divorced. She's about halfway through a bachelor's degree in mechanical engineering. So I know she's at least intelligent and committed to improving her life. I work for a non-profit organization and do not make a ton of money. I definitely know I wouldn't be able to support her and her kids and myself as the only person working in the relationship. She does have a job, but it's commission based so her pay scale varies from week to week.





    She and I have only been kind of flirting in person/texting for a few days. We hung out two nights ago with a group of friends, and she was laying it on pretty thick. Laying her head on my shoulder, making flirty comments, etc...so I'm pretty sure she wants me to ask her out. She's very good looking and fun to be with. So if you took the children out of the equation, I would definitely be all over asking her out.





    What I want to know is this: is it worth it? By that I mean, I've always wanted my own children, and she doesn't plan on having any more. And I want a long term relationship that will lead to marriage. I don't know how she feels about this yet. So to other men out there: do you recommend getting involved with a woman who already has children or do you regret your decision to enter into a relationship like that? Do the children your significant other has fill the need you had for your own children? Please tell me all you can regarding your situation so that I can make an informed decision.





    If you need to know any other information that I may have omitted, please ask and I will edit the question accordingly. Thanks very much.Men...are you involved in a relationship with someone who has children from a previous relationship?
    I got involved with a woman who had a daughter and ended up marring her. My wife and I ended up having a baby and I can honestly tell you that I love both of the kids the same. If we didn't end up having a baby I could have lived my life with only having her daughter quite happily. Both kids are my life and you need to ask yourself if you could be happy with raising her kids as your own.Men...are you involved in a relationship with someone who has children from a previous relationship?
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    How do i Flirt with a women?

    I dont know how to flirt?!?!!?!? at all im not very funny i think im pretty good looking. But i get near a girl i know i like im pretty sure likes me back she knows i like her i talk to her she knows i do to but idk how to flirt and make her laughHow do i Flirt with a women?
    well, first if your in school stay there...





    second, I'm blowing bubbles





    Third,


    heress the best part young lad..





    when yee seeeeeeee the young lady be yourself and if that doesnt work im soorry to say young maybe SHES JUST NOT IN TO YOU.


    try watching that movie








    well, g'day


    it was nice knowing you i had quite the time answering yee questionHow do i Flirt with a women?
    try googling it first then... rephrase your question
    use innuendos, its like words have a double meaning, if shes smart she will catch on and if she dont , maybe shes blonde.
    go up to her and give her a complement, then walk away. when she looks at you, wink at her. if she smiles, use your first finger to wave her over 2 u. talk about things funny like larry the cabel guy or weird things happening at school, and before doing that, ask her about herself, this will be perfecto!
    yeah, if your not funny, your screwed.
    Keep trying! try different things when u find that spot keep it there
    have confidence!!!!


    but u NEED to be funny.
    dude you're not funny.that sucks!


    but hey good luck...try watching dumb and dumber they have catchy phrases for you to use!
    this is what you do:


    1.) Trim nose and pubic hair


    2.) Lick you lips while you talk to her, and then whip out you handy dandy ';LIp Smackers';


    3.) Casually pick your nose while speaking to her, and then flick it towards her mouth.


    4.) While speaking, work on the pronunciation of your words, ie ';HEL-LO. HOO-OW AAAREEE YO-U, and nonchalantly let spittle fly from your mouth into hers.


    GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!
    god, funny guys make me go crazy for them.
    I don't know , be a jackass , thats a prominent personality ';trait'; in most of the guys I have dated , that makes me laugh , but then again im only 15year old girl and I date drunken losers/potheads that are too old for me
    you don't need to be funny, just have a little humor :) and just ask how shes doing and whats going on with her...and what she likes and find somthing ot connect with :)

    How do you know if a woman is flirting?

    Well i was at this party the other night for one my friends. turned out i knew one of the girls there already from uni. from i was there she tried to make small talk. then at further periods during the evening she made an effort to walk by me and stand near me lol. but to be honest i was too drunk to even talk to her at that point. so was she flirting with me, or was that drunken me thinking different?How do you know if a woman is flirting?
    mayhe she was just trying to be nice seeing as she knew you...but she wouldnt make an effort if she wasnt at least interested so i think so ..try and talk to her next time you meet and you will find outHow do you know if a woman is flirting?
    i am guessing she was a girl doesn't make the effort to stand next to you for nothing


    another tell tell sigh is if she was laughing alot around you


    hope this helps
    She would rub your arm or legs and touch you alot and laugh at your jokes and hang out with you

    Guys, what makes you interested in a woman? Besides looks?

    I'm a fairly attractive person, but far from drop dead gorgeous. I guess I'm just average! So, besides looks, what makes you attracted to a woman? And how do you like a woman to flirt with you? I tend to smile a lot, touch their shoulder, joke with them.Guys, what makes you interested in a woman? Besides looks?
    i love a being around a girl that can make me laugh

    When a Women FLIRTS with you about DATING her how much of the time is she SERIOUS?

    Do women just flirt and say things like that, or are they serious and use flirtation to cover it up?When a Women FLIRTS with you about DATING her how much of the time is she SERIOUS?
    You'd have to ask her. Maybe she's flirting as a way of covering herself in case you came flat out and said ';I'm not interested, I don't find you attractive, go away.'; then she could say, I'm only teasing!'; to hide her hurt feelings. Lots of people do this.





    But if you ask, ';Are you just kidding around, or are you really interested?'; you can give her an indication of whether you are just asking for curiosity or if the idea apeals to you. Be gentle and I'll bet she will be gentle with you. Good luck!When a Women FLIRTS with you about DATING her how much of the time is she SERIOUS?
    I think that they are serious and looking for an easier way to get you to ask them out without having to askk you out themselves.
    Believe IT ! SHE MEANS IT !!
    Most of the time. If they flirt, they are probably serious but do not want to come out and ask you first. Women want to have you ask, but if you don't they will hint.
    it depends on the person
    Well we women are natural flirts...atleast I am. But you know the flirting is serious if shes on top of you alot, shes calling you alot and the thing is flirting is one thing and another thing is hinting things and by the way this question is ...shes ';flirting'; with you about you two dating baby, shes hinting you not flirting with you!! So get the hint wink,wink now if you like her ask her out for real ! If not make sure she knows in a nice way, a nice way is talk about other girls with her then shell know you are not into her.
    all the time
    Sometimes we women just flirt and say things, but if we are really interested in you and are shy or something like that, then we will flirt and do so until you ask us out. I would rather flirt with a guy that I like until they ask me out if I am really interested in him. I find that real flattering.





    Other times, we arent serious and just use flirtation to cover it up. Depends on the woman.
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  • At what age does it STOP becoming a compliment?

    ...and start to get CREEPY , for an older woman to flirt with a younger man.





    Like, would a 25 yo guy be completely grossed out by a 40 yo woman flirting with him, or is it still complementary no matter what the Age?





    how about as far as Older guys and young Women?


    Does it make a difference if the Genders are Reversed?At what age does it STOP becoming a compliment?
    keep your eye's on the prize ya battle axe. oly out.At what age does it STOP becoming a compliment?
    I guess depends on the person. If the younger person likes older women/men then maybe they will take it as a compliment. Same thing switched around. It also depends on the looks and how they flirt. A lustful flirt is defiantly a tuner off for me. I'm 36 years old. however, it is always nice to know that someone find you attractive no matter what age you are:)
    Well my 52 year old coworker flirts shamelessly with anyone with a y chromosome that enters our office. It gets disconcerting after a while. She especially likes to hit on (MUCH) younger guys. And my dentist when he calls. Bizarre.





    But 25 and 40 is probably not too odd.
    The male ego never turns down a compliment regardless of age. Some commentary says they wouldn't touch an older woman but if she's a looker and shows availability, those guys will. I'm not sure about younger women with older guys though. Women aren't easy to decipher sometimes.
    I wouln't care if she was a hot cougar. Getting hit on by a frumpy soccer mom isn't cool.
    I think it's always a compliment when someone notices you! Even better if they give you that wink or sly little smile, what creeps me out is when they shout at you from moving vehicles! LOL
    I think its a compliment at any age. Might even be an ego booster for some guys!
    Well, twice now I have had to go pull up my 78 yr old neighbors pants for him........It would be pretty creepy if he hit on me.....I'd have to make my bf go do it!! LOL!! That is not going to happen though....he just needs help doing things!


    I think it depends on the person.....I think I would take it as a compliment as long as it is innocent.....I really don't like getting hit on, since I am in a relationship. It is uncomfortable I find.
    Well some 50 yr old women are still very attractive. By 40 you should be able to read a guy and know if he is appreciating your attention. So go right ahead, flirt, and see where it takes you, But he may think you're a creepy older gal. You never know unless you try.
    I have a very cute friend who is 70. She flirts w every hot guy, not in a 'hit-on' way necessarily, just fun.


    Young people are very drawn to her. They love her humor and wisdom and her very good advice.She is a very pretty lady, a little bird, always beautifully dressed and w a smile that fills a room.


    Flirting is an art form and must be adaptable to every stage of one's life, whatever your sex.


    I think the Creepy aspect is one of the individual, not the age.


    There is the double standard though, isn't there?
    Yes....its the same as the age old double standard:





    If a woman sleeps with a bunch of guys...I call her my ex wife


    If a GUY sleeps with a bunch or women....I call him Brian.





    That and lets get a mental image here...





    Old wrinkly guy with liver spots and a comb-over sporting a Small tire store around the midsection...hitting on you...who incidentally smells like Schlitz and Ben Gay....





    OR





    Confident woman who knows what she wants, knows how to get it and is fearless enough to try.....that and throw into the mix a 25 year old walking ball of hormones that's brain hasn't made the migration from his shorts to his shoulders....





    Which scenario seems less ghastly???





    I rest my case.
    My mums boyfriend is actually younger than me, but they are very happy together and as long as your both happy who cares!

    How should I go about flirting with women at a wedding?

    I'm going to a wedding in 3 weeks and I just wanted to know the absolute best ways to flirt with women at a wedding.How should I go about flirting with women at a wedding?
    Just because it's a wedding doesn't really make it different than any other venue. But I know women love to flirt and meet new guys at weddings so spit that game.How should I go about flirting with women at a wedding?
    How can you plan this in advance??? You may not even be interested in anyone when you get there. Go to the wedding for the right reason -- to celebrate the couple who invited you. If you take a liking to someone while there (remember, weddings are important occasions, not a meat market), just be real and talk to her like a normal human being. Women don't enjoy being treated as prey.
    Wait, is this YOUR wedding? If it is then the easiest targets for you will be your future mother-in-law and/or the maid of honor...if it isn't your wedding and you are just a guest then anything goes! Just make sure you get really drunk and do the Macarena, that's always a big hit with the ladies!!;)





    EDIT: You don't mean your cousin Johnny do you?
    Say:


    YOU: ';You look good in the outfit.';


    LADY: ';Oh, thank you.'; *giggle giggle*


    YOU: ';So, where are you from?';





    That's a nice way to start.
    a) Don't flirt with the bride!!!


    b) Ask them to dance


    c) offer them drinks at the reception


    d) tell them how beautiful they look in their dress

    How to flirt with older women in E-mail? ?

    There is this women at work who is probably 15 years older me but she is kind of sexy. I only see her about once a month but due to work we send emails every day. What is the best way to start flirting with her or let her know I am interested? Every time I write something and i re-read it it just sounds creepy so as of now I have kept it strictly business. What is the best way to break the ice in email. How to flirt with older women in E-mail? ?
    I say start out by commenting on something mildly personal; what was on the mug she was holding, how she had her hair, her new skirt, etc. Seem casually friendly before even trying to flirt. Otherwise the creep-o-meter will go nuts. Get a somewhat personal conversation going then get a little more flirtatious. How to flirt with older women in E-mail? ?
    well all this dirty little thing you notice when you do see her one a month would be perfect... and she will notice that you are taking notice.. and there you go.. Lil!! this happened to me however i was the older one.. and well lets just say we were on the same page when we talked about it !!! so go for it !! if you notice her hair a curtain way or something she has on .. or something she said .. not an e-mail something that came out of her mouth when u talked to her .. say something about it!! let her know you NOTICE her and you will see if the feeling are mutual with out being ';unprofessional'; have fun you only live once!! ...:) i did could not Waite to c him!! huge crush
    First answer should be best answer. Just say something friendly before flirting. You definitely want this woman to think you are nice before she thinks you are a creep, which hopefully she will never think.
    ask her casually if she wants to go to a bar or something, and at the end say, we should do this again...but maybe as an actual date

    Question to ladies who's boyfriends/husbands play in a band......?

    How do you deal with women flirting with your boyfriend/husband when you're also at the gig? Do you worry when you're not at gigs? Sorry, i'm just feeling a bit insecure at the mo and would appreciate any advice on how best to deal with this :-(Question to ladies who's boyfriends/husbands play in a band......?
    I'd whip his *** as they say in America. He's your other half and unless he starts behaving like it, i'd ditch him if i were you. You shouldn't have to put up with this sort of problem.Question to ladies who's boyfriends/husbands play in a band......?
    Ha-ha-ha! Funny ya should ask this question, hon! I performed in a band in me late teens, and my girlfriend at the time had NO problem whatsoever with me bein' in the band, 'cos SHE was in the band an' all, so she was there at all times, to make sure the girls behaved their-bleedin'-selves, and what's more, I was there to make sure the blokes behaved themselves with HER- ha-ha! Peace and love! Be lucky! :)
    just let them get on with it and be yourself and flirt yourself if you have to.. as long as he dont actually sleep with or snog them then you`re alright arent ya? If he did that though, I`d do it back... Its disrespectful of him to do that behaviour in front of you anyway.. tell him that.. what a pratt.. if he dont wanna be with you then he should just say so.. dont be a groupie - just cos he`s in a band it dont make him God... and some pratty blokes thinks it does.. thats why they join one!
    Eurghghgh YES.





    I feel so insecure when he's at gigs, its likeeeee...He has to entertain the ladies there D:





    Nyarghghghg it gets on my nerves, but to be honest, i have to deal with the jealousy/insecurity and just ignore it until something ACTUALLY happens.
    Music is for the illiterate masses, I'd never date a musician if I wanted a faithful relationship.

    WHAT WILL I DO TO BRING BACK THE TUST IN MY HUSBAND AFTER HE FLIRT WITH OTHER WOMAN?

    WHT WILL I DO AFTER 2 YEARS AGO I FOUND OUT MY HUSBAND HAS ANOTHER IRL AND I FORGIVE HIM ALREADY BUT THE PAIN IS STILL THERE HOW WILL IT FADE AWAY AND THE TRUST IN GONE EVENTHOUGH HE CHANGE A LOT FOR THE SAKE OF OUR FAMILY,WHAT WILL I DO TO BRING BACK THE LOVE I HAVE BEFORE FOR HIM AFT ALL..WHAT WILL I DO TO BRING BACK THE TUST IN MY HUSBAND AFTER HE FLIRT WITH OTHER WOMAN?
    You must learn to forgive him in order to trust himWHAT WILL I DO TO BRING BACK THE TUST IN MY HUSBAND AFTER HE FLIRT WITH OTHER WOMAN?
    Ok try and think about it like this it could have been worst you could have found out that he cheated on you but you didn't he was just flirting and I know I say just and it should not have happened but there are people out there that find out a whole lot worst things and alot of these people chose to stay and deal with it but if he has made improvements to try and show he has changed then maybe its time to try and look at him through a diffrent light
    You're question is hard to read..





    You both need to go to Marriage counselling.


    The past is the past. Stop being a dweller and get over it, you staying with him gives him the message that he's forgiven and on a fresh path, holding contentment for his actions is a sin, and not fair. Stop using this against him subconsciously and let it go.
    That is his burden to bare, not yours. He should be finding opportunities to strengthen your trust in him.
    If there is no trust there is no marriage.
    It will always be hard to have the full trust back in the relationship. I wold suggest a family therapist or sex therapist.
    WHY ARE YOU YELLING??????? You need to go back to school and take a spelling class.....

    How do I stop a woman from flirting with my husband?

    A woman working next to my husband's shop is flirting with him. Eating her lunch in our shop, constantly in a tearful mood asking my DH for advice about her loveless marriage. My DH says he doesn't feel anything for her, but it irritates me because of the way she acts when I'm around. She stands very close to him, asks him to get her coffee (which he does!), buys him lunch, and often I find her sitting in his chair. She acts too intimate and it's making me jealous. She's friendly with me but won't keep eye contact. I told my DH about how I feel but he says they're just friends. How do I get her to stop flirting, when my DH allows it?How do I stop a woman from flirting with my husband?
    Don't start a cat fight. Have an honest and serious conversation with your husband, tell him everything you've said here and have him turn it around and look at it as if you were in his position. Then ask him how he would feel. When he says he'd be upset, then point out that you are upset. Let him know that you're beginning to struggle with a trust issue and it's something he must help you with. Because honestly, this is not between you and the other woman, it's between you and your husband.How do I stop a woman from flirting with my husband?
    invite her over for dinner and have another friend there as a date for her. let her see that you and your husband are happy at home and she might get the message.
    Kick your husband's private parts .
    Men usually can't tell if another woman is flirting with them, especially if they don't like them. They're clueless when it comes to things like that (well okay some of them are).





    If your husband says they're just friends, I'm sure they are; you shouldn't be jealous, though, because he's your husband and he would not do anything to hurt your feelings. Maybe you should talk to the woman yourself, tell her that it seems like she's flirting with your husband.





    If she's having trouble with her own marriage, she should talk to her own husband about the problems they are having-the most important thing that keeps a relationship going (besides love) is communication, and it will fall apart if you do not communicate.
    I am a violent person ... I can't give you any advise... but I would have to get locked up
    It just so happens that my husband is the only ';thing'; that I wouldn't share with anyone. If I had been in your place and this pain-in-the-rear woman was testing my patience, I would go up to her, smack her so hard on her face, it would leave prints for a lifetime, and tell her to keep her back off or she'd have to suffer my wrath! Where's the woman in you? Either you face it or you don't! Be strong, kick her buttocks off, and tell your husband off too! Tell him if some guy was flirting with you, how would he feel and what would he do...and maybe follow his example!
    I would confront her..........in front of him. Give her the name of a good counselor, adding that your DH is not qualified to solve her problems!
    If you trust your husband then let him handle it. The best thing for you to do is be really nice to her and become friends. I did that in the same situation and it really works!
    Chill - she is getting the result she wants from you
    kick her a$$
    Almost the same thing happened to me and I tried talking to her first and it didn't help so the next step I did I went to her husband and told him everything. After that she stayed away but needless to say my husband and I winded up getting a divorce a few years later * not over her* but guess who he is now married to . I didn't know it then but I found out years later they were having an affair but she didn't want to loose her hubby's money at the time.


    Things worked out for me though I'm now married to a wonderful man and to make things even better her ex husband left her and married her best friend.
    The problem is your DH. This time is the woman next to your shop, next time it will be another woman. Your DH must not encourage them to be so close to him...
    the best thing i can say is to go to her in person and tell her exactly how you feel in a polite yet firm manner and let her know that her ';flirtacious';ways are causing problems in your relationship and let her know that you think she is a nice person and while u r sure she means no harm it still bothers you and youd appreciate it if she would respect your wishes for her to stop. if tht doesnt work then go to your husband and tell him you have talked with her personally and you feel he needs to respect your feelings and he needs to make her stop immediatly if he wants to keep you as a wife.
    he is boinking her
    SHE is not the problem. Your hubby is the one to deal with her. And you should not be with someone you do not trust. What are you going to do? Wipe out every woman that talks to him?There will always be temptations out there...If you don't trust and want each other... What is the point of marriage?
    You need to have a serious face to face talk with her. Tell her flat out how her behavior around your husband makes you feel. Don't sugar coat it at all - be honest, but not threatening or mean... unless she starts giving you attitude, then step up and tell her you're telling her this as a friend, this time and this time only.





    Good Luck!!!





    Aloha!
    be direct. tell her that she is violating your marraige space, and that you want her to stop. regardless of your husbands view on the matter. and he needs to back you up, even if its just a ';hey, what the wife wants the wife gets'; kinda thing.


    or you could always ';remind'; him to take his medication or else his herpes will flare up again... right in front of her
    You should become her friend, start giving her advice about her marriage with your husband there listening, or when you find yourself alone with her. The best way to divert her attention from him, is to divert her attention to you and for her to see you as a real person who has a real relationship with the man she is eyeing. (That is if she has any conscience).
    Because he is blinding by her advances at him..and he sees it as nothing but friendship. As a woman you know that she is flirting with him, and to be quite honest she is just jealous of what you have with your husband, and I'll watch out for her...cuz if i didn't know any better she may be after ur man. Either way, whether she is, or is not...tell you husband that he needs to draw the line, and you feel uncomfortable with him so close to her and it makes you feel it goes alot deeper than just ';friendship'; and if she means nothing to him..then he wouldn't have a problem telling her to stay behind the counter in the shop...and when you are around take control and let her know that he is your man and to back the **** off...





    Good Luck
    Call her house and threaten her
    This is very tricky. My suggestion is to not put it on your husband to end it. When this woman comes round join in the conversation, when she's tearful about her Husband get her a tissue and sympathise with her. Become her best friend. It's a win win you are not the nagging wife to your husband, and she her advances are well in view. Eat some of the sandwich she buys and thank her profusely for being so kind to you (not your husband). Its better to be the I trust you dear..assuming you have no other problems, than to nag him to stop something he (poor unsuspecting guy) doesn't understand.
    my advice:


    Find a guy friend to come around the shop and be friendly with YOU. Turn the tables around. When you are worried about your man, turn it around, focus the attention on you, and make HIM worry about YOU! I am going through a similar situation, except, it's my husbands x-wife and the mother of his child, and she uses her son as an excuse. This one's a hard one becuause I can't just ask him to stop seeing his own kid! Yeah.. your problem is much easier than mine. I don't know how to get out of this one. Good luck to ya!
    i agree with quint and if that dont work follow thru oh and spy on them check everthing
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