Friday, August 20, 2010

Does he want to cheat??? Men's opinions - or women who know men!!?

A married man and woman flirt for months at work – there’s staring (lots of it!), a lot of smiling, touching (from him), compliments, he always makes time for her and gives her a lot more attention than everyone else…





The woman gets pregnant and so does the guy’s wife. The guy always starts conversations with the woman, even when she’s just walking by his office – lately, he has complained about his wife’s behavior, how she yells at him, and praised the woman for how “calm” and “even-keeled” she always is, and how he always thinks about how his wife is not like the woman…





One day, the whole department is having lunch together, and one of the older men stops the conversation and says to the married guy: “(Guy’s name), you missed a comment that (woman’s name) just made… She said that, when it comes to pregnancy, men have it just as hard as women!”. She keeps talking about how she WANTS to yell at her husband, but never does, b/c he’s so good to her and doesn’t deserve it – and that she would never do that even though she’s pregnant, etc.





The guy says to her “Oh! I want to give you a hug!!” and goes on to say that he’ll take her quote and have it as a disclaimer at the end of his e-mail signature, and how he’d love it if she could “tell his wife how to behave like that”, etc. They keep gushing over how perfect a wife the woman is.





Then, the older guy says: “(Woman’s name) is setting the standard for how pregnant women should behave…”. The married guy looks straight at her, smiles and says “(Woman’s Name) sets ALL the standards…”. Ignoring everyone else around them, he continues to stare deeply into her eyes after he’s finished saying it - and she stares back.





What do his comments mean? Does he have a crush?Does he want to cheat??? Men's opinions - or women who know men!!?
There is obviously some kind of affection between the man and the woman. It doesn't mean through that the guy wants to cheat or that he even has a crush on her. It may just be a close friendship in his mind and that it's ok to say those things to her.





If you really wanted to know if it was more than that, you would have to ask if he were single, would he go out with her or something to that affect. There is a big difference between innocent flirting and wanting to cheat on your spouse.



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