Don't start a cat fight. Have an honest and serious conversation with your husband, tell him everything you've said here and have him turn it around and look at it as if you were in his position. Then ask him how he would feel. When he says he'd be upset, then point out that you are upset. Let him know that you're beginning to struggle with a trust issue and it's something he must help you with. Because honestly, this is not between you and the other woman, it's between you and your husband.How do I stop a woman from flirting with my husband?
invite her over for dinner and have another friend there as a date for her. let her see that you and your husband are happy at home and she might get the message.
Kick your husband's private parts .
Men usually can't tell if another woman is flirting with them, especially if they don't like them. They're clueless when it comes to things like that (well okay some of them are).
If your husband says they're just friends, I'm sure they are; you shouldn't be jealous, though, because he's your husband and he would not do anything to hurt your feelings. Maybe you should talk to the woman yourself, tell her that it seems like she's flirting with your husband.
If she's having trouble with her own marriage, she should talk to her own husband about the problems they are having-the most important thing that keeps a relationship going (besides love) is communication, and it will fall apart if you do not communicate.
I am a violent person ... I can't give you any advise... but I would have to get locked up
It just so happens that my husband is the only ';thing'; that I wouldn't share with anyone. If I had been in your place and this pain-in-the-rear woman was testing my patience, I would go up to her, smack her so hard on her face, it would leave prints for a lifetime, and tell her to keep her back off or she'd have to suffer my wrath! Where's the woman in you? Either you face it or you don't! Be strong, kick her buttocks off, and tell your husband off too! Tell him if some guy was flirting with you, how would he feel and what would he do...and maybe follow his example!
I would confront her..........in front of him. Give her the name of a good counselor, adding that your DH is not qualified to solve her problems!
If you trust your husband then let him handle it. The best thing for you to do is be really nice to her and become friends. I did that in the same situation and it really works!
Chill - she is getting the result she wants from you
kick her a$$
Almost the same thing happened to me and I tried talking to her first and it didn't help so the next step I did I went to her husband and told him everything. After that she stayed away but needless to say my husband and I winded up getting a divorce a few years later * not over her* but guess who he is now married to . I didn't know it then but I found out years later they were having an affair but she didn't want to loose her hubby's money at the time.
Things worked out for me though I'm now married to a wonderful man and to make things even better her ex husband left her and married her best friend.
The problem is your DH. This time is the woman next to your shop, next time it will be another woman. Your DH must not encourage them to be so close to him...
the best thing i can say is to go to her in person and tell her exactly how you feel in a polite yet firm manner and let her know that her ';flirtacious';ways are causing problems in your relationship and let her know that you think she is a nice person and while u r sure she means no harm it still bothers you and youd appreciate it if she would respect your wishes for her to stop. if tht doesnt work then go to your husband and tell him you have talked with her personally and you feel he needs to respect your feelings and he needs to make her stop immediatly if he wants to keep you as a wife.
he is boinking her
SHE is not the problem. Your hubby is the one to deal with her. And you should not be with someone you do not trust. What are you going to do? Wipe out every woman that talks to him?There will always be temptations out there...If you don't trust and want each other... What is the point of marriage?
You need to have a serious face to face talk with her. Tell her flat out how her behavior around your husband makes you feel. Don't sugar coat it at all - be honest, but not threatening or mean... unless she starts giving you attitude, then step up and tell her you're telling her this as a friend, this time and this time only.
Good Luck!!!
Aloha!
be direct. tell her that she is violating your marraige space, and that you want her to stop. regardless of your husbands view on the matter. and he needs to back you up, even if its just a ';hey, what the wife wants the wife gets'; kinda thing.
or you could always ';remind'; him to take his medication or else his herpes will flare up again... right in front of her
You should become her friend, start giving her advice about her marriage with your husband there listening, or when you find yourself alone with her. The best way to divert her attention from him, is to divert her attention to you and for her to see you as a real person who has a real relationship with the man she is eyeing. (That is if she has any conscience).
Because he is blinding by her advances at him..and he sees it as nothing but friendship. As a woman you know that she is flirting with him, and to be quite honest she is just jealous of what you have with your husband, and I'll watch out for her...cuz if i didn't know any better she may be after ur man. Either way, whether she is, or is not...tell you husband that he needs to draw the line, and you feel uncomfortable with him so close to her and it makes you feel it goes alot deeper than just ';friendship'; and if she means nothing to him..then he wouldn't have a problem telling her to stay behind the counter in the shop...and when you are around take control and let her know that he is your man and to back the **** off...
Good Luck
Call her house and threaten her
This is very tricky. My suggestion is to not put it on your husband to end it. When this woman comes round join in the conversation, when she's tearful about her Husband get her a tissue and sympathise with her. Become her best friend. It's a win win you are not the nagging wife to your husband, and she her advances are well in view. Eat some of the sandwich she buys and thank her profusely for being so kind to you (not your husband). Its better to be the I trust you dear..assuming you have no other problems, than to nag him to stop something he (poor unsuspecting guy) doesn't understand.
my advice:
Find a guy friend to come around the shop and be friendly with YOU. Turn the tables around. When you are worried about your man, turn it around, focus the attention on you, and make HIM worry about YOU! I am going through a similar situation, except, it's my husbands x-wife and the mother of his child, and she uses her son as an excuse. This one's a hard one becuause I can't just ask him to stop seeing his own kid! Yeah.. your problem is much easier than mine. I don't know how to get out of this one. Good luck to ya!
i agree with quint and if that dont work follow thru oh and spy on them check everthing
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