How can I approach or flirt with women in everyday settings without looking weird or desperate and pretentious?

Outside of the obvious places like clubs, bars, or even a school where it is kind of expected. Like when you're waiting or inside and elevator. At the supermarket while she is focused on the best cuts of meat, at rite aid while she's searching for shea butter, or even while she is walking her dog, you know the everyday settings. How can I begin a small conversation without creating an awkward situation where she rolls her eyes and just runs away. How can I come off friendly but interested in her at the same time? will women only talk back to guys they are instantly attracted to?How can I approach or flirt with women in everyday settings without looking weird or desperate and pretentious?
Women always love someone who takes their opinions into account. I think the most general answer to this question (that has a lot of scenarios except the obvious ones) is to say that you ask their opinion pretending to not know anything about whatever you are looking at. For example, at the supermarket you can ask what kind of meat would you get to make lasagna. She will tell you if she knows, and they you can tell her that maybe you should cook her lasagna if she wants so she can be the judge.





I think this is a cute way to get to her (already letting her know you are willing to be the type of guy who cooks and pampers) but without seeming like you want to desperately get into her pants (as asking her out to a bar would sound)How can I approach or flirt with women in everyday settings without looking weird or desperate and pretentious?
Pick up on things around you like if she is walking her dog, say ';That's a nice dog, what breed is it'; and then you can start a conversation that way. Then you can comment on the weather, or recent news event or something. Then ask some things about her (not too prying). Then if she seems interested ask her out on a date. Most women get to know a guy a bit before they write them off, and if the girl is only after a looks, shes not worth the trouble.
Honestly just walk up to them and say ';hi';. I am personally very impressed when a guy has the guts just to walk up to a girl and engage in decent conversation. I hate it when they try to act all cool and come across as conceited to me.





If you start talking to her more and more, just being friendly, she will probably catch the hint eventually, and then it wouldn't be awkward.





Just be friendly, talk to her, be confident in yourself(but not conceited), and that should work. Let's just say I would be very impressed and appreciative if a guy was just friendly to me.





Then eventually tell her how you feel. (I would love for a guy to be honest with me!)





That's all the help I can give.
small conversation always works. it shows your interested. if the girl is rolling her eyes and walking away she isn't worth your time so don't feel bad about it. when you talk to a girl ask them questions and try not to talk too much about yourself at first. ask them their likes, dislikes, hobbies, what they do for work, that kind of stuff. a good woman will talk to a guy even if she isn't instantly attracted to them. if they only talk to people they have instant attraction with they're self absorbed.
Just say hello miss, or something like Excuse me, I don't mean to be a bother, but I just had to tell you that you are looking lovely today. Say these things with a pleasant smile. If she is a mature woman who is worth your time than she will say thank you, and you can take it from there. Only guys who try to make themselves seem cool or suave come off as assholes.
You do know those are the places where you find the good ones right.. forget the clubs forget the bars... you know the type that hang out there... just be yourself and ask the girl out... its no problem for you at the club so whats the problem just walking up to a woman at the grocery store and saying hi, I just had to come over and say hi, and striking up a convo... grow some man. The most she will do is say no.. im sure with that kind of self confidence you get that all the time... Just do it.... and stay out of the bars trying to pick up girls.... thats a place to take your girl for some drinks or party with your buddies not to find a girl worth keeping. That is unless you like the type with disease .