Need a tactfull way to handle this?

I am in my 40 and have been married for over 22 years. Both of my kids are in college. This is going to sound odd that a person my age not sure how to handle this but would like some input. Would ask my wife or friends for advice but it just sounds kind of creepy in the first place.





Here is what occurred this summer my daughter has had a couple college friends over to the house. This might sound like not big deal shoot she had friends over all the time growing up. Issue is that one of her friends kept flirting with me shoot I am old enough to be her father she is 20 years old. This young lady is very attractive and every time she has come over wears some very revealing outfits. She has even spent the night twice at our home not sure why but having a young sexy flirting women running around my home half naked at times just makes it uncomfortable situation. Not that would do anything but I am a man and it does make for some very worrisome situation. I try to avoid her when she is over but have found myself alone in some room of the house with her briefly and she is no holes barred flirting with me. Would tell my wife but she would think I was imaging things or being some sort of dirty old man. Its not that but want to nip this in the bud.Need a tactfull way to handle this?
This is easy.





Don't flirt back and don't pay her undue attention. Be respectful and answer her if she asks anything or talks, but you know where the line is.





Don't cross it.Need a tactfull way to handle this?
I wouldn't have a problem telling your daughter that you don't want that friend to spend the night or visit in the house any more. You are well within your rights to put a stop to it. Just tell your daughter that you don't think her friend is appropriate when she is there. Dressing revealing is disrespectful in the first place but flirting with you, her friends father who is married, that is way disrespectful. I wouldn't have her in my home.
Then inform your daughter that you would greatly appreciate it if her friends wouldnt walk around the house partially dressed before her mother finds out and stops all overnight visits, and that hopefully she doesnt do that over her friends house. That should take care of it and clear you of anything
Avoiding her is a great way to go but the next time you find yourself alone with her and she does it maybe you should make it very clear to her that you are 40 and married! And let her know that it is not acceptable behavior and that she needs to stop. You need to let her know that it will never happen with you!
you should be flattered. if she ever goes beyond flirting, just tell her you love your wife %26amp; that is not going to happen. your wife is one lucky lady! and you know, there is no law against LOOKING. Just dont touch!
American Beauty right?
she's old enough - go ahead and bang her
Next time your alone in a room with her act like your on the phone with somebody and make a comment that you herpies is flaring up and its messing with you genital warts. It will make her dis interested and will be bad enough that she won't want to bring it up to you daughter or wife. Then you will be trouble free besides that flair up! Haha
Honestly I'm not so sure that TACT is needed. First of all you need to most definately be HONEST and let your wife know about this teenage girl and her flirting and immodest clothing and how it is making you uncomfortable. I would then ask HER to mention it gently to the young lady that if she is to be in YOUR home she needs to wear proper clothing when there are MEN in the house.





THAT way you are covering your butt, addressing the issue and not putting yourself in a possible compromising situation with this or any other young woman that would come back and BITE YOU! YOUR WIFE needs to be in on this situation or you are taking some very real RISKS emotionally and relationally!





Someone needs to put this GIRL in her place - she is behaving inappropriately and if her MOTHER can't put her in line - your wife or your daughter needs to, while she is in YOUR home!





Come on - face reality here man before you screw up and slip up!