Monday, August 16, 2010

What makes a man play on a woman or women's emotions knowing he does not mean anything by his flirting?

I had a friend (ex-friend) who did this; flirting with women knowing that he did not mean anything and he knew how they took it. To him it is all a game and people get hurt by him.What makes a man play on a woman or women's emotions knowing he does not mean anything by his flirting?
I think you answered your own question. Men like this do it because it is a game to him....he is the gamemaster and me wants to move his pieces however he wants....he gets his enjoyment of trying to control you and get you to satisfy all of his needs. It gives him enjoyment, usually cheap sex, and boosts his ego...making him think he is a ';man'; when in fact it just makes him ';a little boy.'; Then when he is bored or you stop satisfying him, he throws you aside and goes to the next...and yes, there are women out there that do the same thing.....be happy you are not with a jerk like this...=)What makes a man play on a woman or women's emotions knowing he does not mean anything by his flirting?
It's called look at me! See what I ';got'; or can do. As if they lost something. Really flirting is an art form. Both men and woman do it to an art form and they do it well. If done well one can real in the prize at anytime. However if one is just playing the game. The that person will soon fine that the line is in trapped with to many things called life! You can't hurt others and not have it come back to bit you that's just the way it goes and so goes another day in the fast lane of flirting lol...
So many reasons... some do it for the ego boost, some do it because they like to prey on other peoples emotions, or they may have a self esteem issue and thats their only way they have of feeling good about themselves. Doesnt make it right though...
same thing happened to me it took me a year to hug people
Same reason that women do it. It's a selfish way to boost their ego by having someone pursue them.

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