How do spot a woman flirting with me?

Maybe an odd question, lol... but I know lots of different 'signs' of flirting - but for some reason, I stay 'closed' and just don't notice/don't watch for the signs.





I was in a 14 yr relationship, so perhaps I've tuned myself out to it.. now a woman pretty much has to walk up to me and say ';Hey, I'm flirting with you!'; to get me to notice her.





Any advice?How do spot a woman flirting with me?
notice what they she is doing with her hands. Crossed usually means she is not flirting, and open means she might want to or is flirting.


If the constantly fiddle with there hair than yeah it's flirting





slight taps, or touches on your hand or arm might be an indication.





also glance, don't stare, at her feet if they are pointed at you then yeah she MIGHT be flirting, if not then she MIGHT be want to leave. ( not a 100% accurate more like 80)





here is a good tester, to check if she is in to you say a really corny joke than you no is not funny ( but don't make it too lame) If she laughs then she is in to you if not then she is not. It will also be the best fake laugh you will hear.