Monday, August 16, 2010

How does a man flirt with a woman without coming across as a wierdo?

These days women have to be guarded and it is hard for a man to break the ice these days.How does a man flirt with a woman without coming across as a wierdo?
To flirt start with the eyes.


Look at the person and hold their gaze for a few seconds


Look down and then back at them.


Smile.


If it gets recipriocated thats all you need to try to have a conversation. Try it.


by the way NEVER SAY do you come here often?How does a man flirt with a woman without coming across as a wierdo?
Just be casual, in control. If you try too hard then it seems phoney. Don't go overboard with sexual innuendo. Just light small talk to start. Small compliments help too. Good Luck
Why don't you just show her respect....
Talk to or compliment her at least. Not something like ';Nice @$$!'; LOL. If she's wearing a cross or flower necklace, as if she's into that, or if that's her favorite flower. It's simple and you get to know something about her. Best of luck!
Mmm .... maybe you're just a bit self-conscious. Relax and just be friendly. If she's not interested, don't push it.
You're right that women have to be guarded. Most women have been hit on or cat-called to on the street. Find someone with common interests, such as in a class or club. That way you'll automatically have something to talk about.
OK boys, listen up. Want a sure fire way to pick up a chick. HONESTY. Walk up to her and say, Hello, my name is.... I saw you sitting here and wanted to say hello. Tell her what you noticed about her, you have amazing eyes, or you look beautiful tonight. Don't b.s. and forget about those silly pickup lines, cuz they don't work on real women. If all you want is sex, be honest about that too, don't think we won't understand.
yea dude i know what you mean, its like anything we say we come across as weirdos and stuff, once you find out let me know lol
I love it when a guy winks! Winks i said, not w*anks ok?! Lol, it's an old fashioned thing, but i still think it's lovely and makes me smile. It's not too full on either, just subtle enough to make a woman notice. Give it a try!
well you should hold a friendly conversation
If you approach a woman with the sole intention of 'pulling her' she'll know straight away. use ice breakers that aren't the 'norm' everyone uses the ';do you come here often'; type of approach. Be different, use lines like ';do you believe in magic?'; or ';did you see that girl fight outside earlier?';. DONT try to 'chat her up' just talk and get to know her. You'll soon discover if she's interested.


Also don't keep complimenting her, she'll know you are trying to hit on her if you do and she's porbably heard it all before. e yourself and you can't go wrong.A girl will need to feel comfortable with you before she'll imagine dating you....good luck!
give her a compliment
be direct, look in the eyes, not too intense, not arrogant but confident, smile alot, maintain eye contact, compliment and avoid controversial conversation topics, keep it simple, job, where they live, what they doing there tonight and proceed from there.
don't be too forward(u'll sound like a jerk)





talk flirty


joke around with her


tease her a bit

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